Do you think you can do "it" without being inlove?
By jhodevera
@jhodevera (32)
Philippines
June 5, 2010 12:23am CST
Just a question that popped out of my mind. Do you yourself actually think that you can do "it" without love? I mean, how could you kiss somebody you are not inlove with?
How can you hold each other tight and do whatever it is for no reason at all? And worst thing, you or your partner got pregnant? Then this is another case of broken family...
3 responses
@eventualist (819)
• Canada
5 Jun 10
Of course I can do "it" even without love. I can't see it being an enjoyable experience without loving each other (or at least some kind of affection), but yes, I "could" do it.
The real question is would I? I don't think so. Like you said, there's just too many risks to think about and I wouldn't want to chance getting pregnant with someone that I didn't even like. I don't really think it's worth it, but that's just my opinion.
@jhodevera (32)
• Philippines
5 Jun 10
hhmmm.... you're right.. my question should have been started with "Could you"
:)
@Janurmas (642)
• Indonesia
20 Jan 13
It is a something meaningful for our enjoyment. Everyone has the right to do it, since it is consensual. I would like t enjoy doing it with the one that I like who also would like to do it even without in love. But, in case making a baby, I need someone who is being inlove with me.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
17 Jun 10
Anyone can go through the motions. It is the emotion thar we feel tht is important. Doing "it" is not love. Some will mistake the act for bond. It is not the same thing and never will be. The best thing you can do if you are considering this act is to be sure you feel love for this person. It makes the experience more worthwhile.
