Now It Was Proven....TIME REALLY HEALS...

@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
June 6, 2010 3:38pm CST
Seeing someone who gave you heartaches and pains, and never heard and never seen for so many years,is like seeing a dead man rising from his grave...so scary!!! But that was the day I accepted it was a challenge and that day also I realized...time heals...:)
6 responses
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
That is correct. Time heals all wounds... Those pain and anger should fly away with the "time" first before we can truly move on and forgive the person completely. It might take long but definitely a good feeling once we have overcome it... It is really nice to know that yu have finally move on and faced your past already. Have a nice day.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Yah, I am happy to know that, I already moved on.I just laugh to all bad memories, I considered them as part of my life story and the chapter of it is already finish..:)
• Philippines
11 Jun 10
Well we all have bad and tough past.. But once we are done with it and look back, we wil just smile and sometimes laugh at those bad times because its finally over, we have learned something from it and that experience made us a better person... Yeah they are close chapyers of our life...
@joy4you (641)
• India
7 Jun 10
Time does heal...if you let it !! There are many things we can do or rather not do that helps wounds to heal faster. A lot depends on our state of mind, the most important being our willingness to accept the situation and move on, I guess this is what people find the most difficult thing to do. I myself have been through a lot of hurt and pain and hoped some how that things would get better and kept trying to repair my marriage but this only prolonged my pain. I realized that I also had my parents depending on me and I was wasting my time, it was best to start afresh. Let's see what the future holds for me, I believe the worst is over...for now.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Your brave, and I am happy that you have that traits in you.Anyway we have our choice right?why prolong the agony it there is the best way to end it? Hope you will be ok...Godbless
@p3ks626 (6552)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Well, i does! I have had so many times in my life when I have been heard and the only thing that helped me is time to heal everything. I have something again this time that's hurting me again but I am expecting that time will heal it. Its going to take a long time but I just know it will.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
7 Jun 10
Yes, i did proved it,when i see him after so many years I did not feel pain already,I just laugh to all those memories.
@asliah (11149)
• Philippines
8 Apr 13
yes,that is true,because even me also experienced that before,it will heal more faster when you never see the person who made you cry and leave pain in your heart,they are only nothing to me after many years even the back and seen them again.
@rajaiv0810 (1013)
• Philippines
8 Jun 10
Congratulations for that. I know for those who have been in such tough situations it wouldn't be easy. But all you need is courage and your family and friends. You need to have a support group ho can help you in the process of healing. But first you need to have acceptance. Once you have accepted what happened and the reality, it will make the process easy for you. Good for you that finally you were healed from all those pain. Now it will be a new life and new challenges await again. Good luck.
@med889 (5958)
7 Jun 10
Time heals everything, and we need to be patient too in life. When I was in college, I had done a painting on canvas for my final year and the day before I found my canvas was torn out on the top, it was my worst day as firstly I did not know how to react, then I did not know who did this to me, then I had to return the canvas for correction too, then I had little time to do another painting, it was horrible I still remember, I had to send the painting like it was. I got less marks and everyone got brilliant marks, I was frustrated, then after three weeks I came to know who did this to me, she was in my class and she did it because she was very jealous, when I found out it was too late as she had gone abroad, now after four years I saw her recently, she is neither studying nor working but at home itself, and she cannot look at me in my eyes too, she made her way so hurriedly to escape my vision. Now I know that time heals, because she is where she was and I am gone forward in life.