Things to consider in breaking-up

June 9, 2010 9:34pm CST
What do you usually consider in breaking up a relationship? When do you think is the right time to end it?
4 responses
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
There's no right time for ending up any relationship...well, for me breaking up is not that easy thing to do... If I will going to break someone's heart, I will make sure that I have enough reason reason/s to do that..I will make sure that I will be fair to him..hehe ;p
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• Philippines
12 Jun 10
First you should fully understand the reason why you're breaking up. Is it because of a mistake you find so unforgivable? Is it something you have to do because you find yourself falling for someone else and being with current person makes you feel so bad because in a way, you're heart already belongs to someone else. Is it because of managing your priorities and you find yourself being into something else right now instead of building a stronger relationship? And lastly, you should always think if you are not really going to regret this decision and if you're sure that you won't be swallowing your pride in the future and get back to the person.
• Malaysia
10 Jun 10
When a person is hurting and can't handle it no more i think she or he should walk out of the relationship. I was in such realtionship once and i was a fool thinking it will turn out to be fine but it didn't. we fight most of the time, the word 'love' is just an excuse for wanting something. in my situation it was money. my bf (now ex) will ask for money and promise to pay, sometime even force me to borrow from my parents. He was working and yet i don't know where he spend it on. I had to leave him because the relationship was becoming unhealthy for me and abusing me mentally. so i hust walked away and never regretted my action.
• United States
10 Jun 10
There shouldn't be "a right time to end it." I think if you just stop feeling it, then you just end it.