Being in love: Having commitment
June 10, 2010 7:05pm CST
committing in a relationship does not always trade yourself of being single. Sometimes it risks your happiness of being single. of being free from pain, heartaches, and sadness. commitment shoulders every responsibilities of not just being your partner, but of being sincere, faithful, acceptance, honesty, sensitivity, sacrifice, and above all, a responsibilities of loving and be loved. certain journey of my life came when i thought that commitment could give me an assurance of love. It was hard to handle situation when you are just thinking of the happiness you may feel at that moment. there are lots of trials that will come in our way, but its good to see my self holding on to the person whom i am hoping to hold my hands too. I realized that being in a love relationship is a matter that at the end of the day, you are finding yourself to be with that person and say those sweetest words you could ever say.
11 Jun 10
I agree. Love is indeed a choice as well. If the initial magic of falling in love wears off, being committed to the other person will help you see the relationship through. To ignite the flames of passion again and then feeding that relationship day in and day out.
11 Jun 10
yes. Two thumbs up for the idea.. Igniting the feeling means that you are taking good care a lot of that relationship. I once did that thing, but unfortunately i did it at the wrong person. But I do believe that Love hurts when GOD knows we deserve someone better.