How can we be happy every day?

China
June 10, 2010 9:11pm CST
Hello mylotter! do you have any ideas about happy everyday? Now I found that life is hard and is not easy to be happy because I have to deal with trouble things whatever job and life and relationship with people. How can we make myself happier everyday? Any ideas pls let us share. Waiting for good advice from everyone.
3 responses
• China
11 Jun 10
Some persons are born pessimistic. They can't forget unhappy things all day. To train this kind of characteristic, maybe the owner of it shall spend much longer time on it. But just try and teach yourselves every day. You will get it! Specifically, different thoughts or opinions usu appear in minds at diff ages. To some degree, I think you have not found what most attracts you in your life. A BF/GF, a baby, a game, a sport and so on, usu can recall a period of life. Ever I felt so bored for life and even thought that living is of no meaning, and just a soap opera, felt silly by me today, made me keep up. Peculiar?! I remember that's a time when I have much idle time. Every day I thought much in mind and don't know what to do. But now, every day I worked so tired, and should spend all of my rest time on my son. Sometimes I still may think boring, but for my son, nothing is unimportant.
• China
12 Jun 10
Maybe after those period my life come back to normal track I will feel happy again.I should not thought a lot about unhappy thing now.
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
11 Jun 10
by doing what makes you happy
• China
11 Jun 10
Yes, I often do what I want to do, but sometimes my family will stop me doing something and said a lot into my ears which make me unhappy. What shall I do? if listening to them I feel uncomfortable even I know that they want me well. if not listening to them who will angry with me and say a lot word to me.
• China
11 Jun 10
Some persons are born pessimistic. They can't forget unhappy things all day. To train this kind of characteristic, maybe the owner of it shall spend much longer time on it. But just try and teach yourselves every day. You will get it! Specifically, different thoughts or opinions usu appear in minds at diff ages. To some degree, I think you have not found what most attracts you in your life. A BF/GF, a baby, a game, a sport and so on, usu can recall a period of life. Ever I felt so bored for life and even thought that living is of no meaning, and just a soap opera, felt silly by me today, made me keep up. Peculiar?! I remember that's a time when I have much idle time. Every day I thought much in mind and don't know what to do. But now, every day I worked so tired, and should spend all of my rest time on my son. Sometimes I still may think boring, but for my son, nothing is important.