Exam/Girlfriend Stress

June 12, 2010 7:49pm CST
i have my exam in two days time, ive been stressing about them for the past one week and on TOp of that my gf is even giving me stress and in the last 3 days i havent been able to study a single word :( what is one supposed to do in these situations ??? how not to think abt her and concentrate on my studies ..
3 responses
• Philippines
13 Jun 10
hi there ronniesta. good luck on your exam. i think this is the time that you set boundaries. you are running out of time and you have something important to face in few days. if your gf really cares for you she'll give you peace of mind and a chance of time. talk to her firmly. if she goes in tantrums, tell her that you don't such for the moment. make her feel that she's important AND your studies are as well. if she doesn't understand it, i guess you better pack your books, dump your phone and go somewhere quiet. you dont need a nagging girlfriend. seriously, how can you go along such a relationship where in you are about to trash the important things in your life. oh i forgot to ask, is she fretting about important issue that you haven't settled on? if so, i guess she has the little right to bug you. but i hope she's more understanding especially time is the issue here. goodluck in juggling both.;-)
16 Jun 10
haha..thanks but it was taken care of !! just in time though :p !!and now my exams have ended..i dont mind her giving me stress now :D !!
@undiesman (174)
• Malaysia
13 Jun 10
Hi ron Well it should be your girlfriend supporting you now,not giving you more stress. Try to settle the problem first,maybe then you should be able to concentrate better. Anyways good luck with that. :D
16 Jun 10
haha..thanks and yea it was taken care of !! just in the nick of time though :D ..and now my exams have ended..i dont mind her giving me stress now :D !!
@mcfuddy (382)
• United States
13 Jun 10
is it an issue you can solve with her? if so id sit her down and talk or do w/e you gotta do to set the prob with her straight. bc you be a 'lil sidetracked if you try to put her off till after the exam. so try to solve it then you can focus on ur exam. if it isnt something you can just solve. well then iono ;P GL!