It is own choice

I agree to you everything happen to us base on our decision is our own responsibility and we don't have the right to blame other on our mistake. If we choose something we should be responsible in it and the consequences we get. That is one of my reason why I hate those mature people who suffer and still blame their parents or others in their mistake in life, example is the people who always blame their parent making it their reason why they have bad attitude or why they are in the world of crime. I know I don't have the right to said this thing because my family is complete, but even thought we are complete we don't live in luxurious life, but I never blame them when we don't have anything to eat for several years and I never blame my parent for not having a single experience in having a NEW toy when I was a kid and until now I still don't get what I want, I also don't blame them for being one of the poorest family in our country. It is not our fault or our parents fault to be born in less-fortunate family , but it is going to be our fault if we die poor, it is our own choice to live what we want and not by the current state of our life now, there are lots of poor people and orphan that reach and having the luxurious life now because the choices they made in their lives.

yeah!What you are now is because its your own choice. So, whatever path you take, you don't have the right to blame anyone. Its your choice and that's the way you choose. ;)