How could I say that I'm OK, but the truth is I'm not...

Philippines
June 15, 2010 12:23pm CST
Have you been into a long distance relationship and it has been months that you are apart? The sad thing is I'm starting to like someone else. But, I still love my partner. I'm so confused lately on how to handle things between my best friend, my partner and the person I like. This is how the situation really affects me everyday, I have a best friend and her suitor is the person I like, but the person I like said earlier that shes falling for me...I really don't know what to do...can somebody please help me? I know how it would create a problem and I know that this feeling is wrong...but, how could I stop this feeling, when my heart says DON't Stop!HELP!
2 responses
@jugsjugs (13045)
15 Jun 10
I think that any relationship can be hard.I think that there are people that have long distance relationships as long as they both trust each other aswell as they are very commited.I think that if you are having feelings for someone else you should seriously consider if it is a lust thing or a love thing as there is a very big difference.
@kodukodu84 (1576)
• Malaysia
15 Jun 10
Well, you need to take sometimes, take it slow, think about what's the best decision you can make..at the end of the day, the final decision it's all in your hand. But I think one thing that at least you should never forget to do, is remind yourself about why you stayed with your partner all this time. Is it because you simply just love her, do you actually need her because you love her, and what is it with her that you can't leave her straight away? If you never loved her for what she is and for what she was for you all this time..then it's fair enough for you to go to someone else. Because she will definitely ask you why, she will cries and ask you..this is not a lie..a lot of man do that too. For the answer with your first question, I'm in a long distance relationship too. I dunno how far you are from your partner, but my fiance' is in edinburgh, and I'm in Kuala Lumpur. We've been together in long distance relationship for 5 years and soon, we are going to get married. I haven't seen him since last February this year, and he also had to propose me on Skype haha..which is funny but sweet. Well, that was a bit about me. But, while you are making a decision...don't let yourself down, be positive. Good luck mate..