take part in all your friends' discussion-possible?

India
June 16, 2010 6:37am CST
Hi MyLotters,my friends and yet-to-be-friends, If you hold a long list of friends and if they raise discussions all day long,is it possible to take part in each of their discussion?Suppose,you've 10 friends and they raise 5 discussions each day,then it comes a total of 50 discussions left for you to take part.Now if you don't take part in your friend's discussion,he/she may get offended or drop you from the notion of friendship.Sometimes it's also possible that you fail to take part in none of the discussions thrown by your friends due to your workload.Do you think friends should be understanding and don't feel ignorant? Thanks, Happy MyLotting!!
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8 responses
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 10
Hi yoursjannat, I could consume my spare time here to write less than ten posts daily here. Therefore it's definitely impossible for me to take part in all my friends discussion for sure. Due to the time limited I have to pick those which interest me as well as I have more to share with only. Moreover there is a long list of emails of new discussions received daily. I believe our friends surely would understand how this forum works here. It's impossible to reply all the discussions of our friends started for we have hundreds of friends in our friends list, some even have very much more than that And we should get ourselves accustomed with the situation here as well, we then could enjoy the fun of typing posts relaxingly here. Happy posting
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• India
20 Jun 10
Hi booi, yes,you are very right in that our mylot friends should be understanding. Thanks for comenting, Happy MyLotting!!
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
21 Jun 10
You are very much welcome yoursjannat Anyway, having more friends we have more preferences when picking discussions. I like to participate in topics which I have more to write. Of course I tend to pick discussions from friends who would add comments in responses received. It's really fun we could have interaction with one another here
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• India
21 Jun 10
Yes booi,Mylot opens the door for public interaction in a very decent way!That's why I do MyLotting whenever I'm free.Thanks.
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@hexeduser22 (7253)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Its possible to participate in every friends discussion just as long you are interested in it. Its rare to find a lotter that actually deletes friends who dont participate in his/her discussions, at least my friends are not like that because its a bit immature having that kind of mindset(just my opinion)
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• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Glad you got my point
• India
20 Jun 10
Hi hex, Yes,that's pretty right in that friends' should show enough maturity. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!
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@srganesh (6340)
• India
16 Jun 10
It is highly impossible to answer all the posts by our friends. We may not be aware of some questions at all and so we have to drop them eventually. And we should not expect all our friends to answer every post of us. If it is the condition, then each and every post should have thousands and thousands of responses. But you can see more posts with one or two responses.
• India
20 Jun 10
Hi ganesh and stephanie, It's my obligation to let my friends' know that I'm sorry for failing to participate in all of their discussions for which I raised this topic. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!
• United States
16 Jun 10
I agree with you because I have lots of friends on here. I have about two hundred of them so if each friend creates one discussions, that's a lot of discussions! (But most friends create more than one discussion) I would love to respond to every single discussion that my friend's create, but I just don't have the time. I try to answer some of them, but sometimes I feel abd for the ones I can't answer because I just can't.
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@o0jopak0o (6394)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
well most of my friends in mylot don't partake in my discussions. But i dont get offended or something. But i have more than 100 friends in mylot but if they make one discussion each that will mean 100 discussions which i can do in a few hours
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• India
20 Jun 10
Hi jopak, Thanks for your understanding, Happy MyLotting!!
@cip116 (1011)
• Romania
20 Jun 10
Sure it would be very good as you did the calculations. But unfortunately not all conversation are all topics that interest our friends. Many have during the day and other things to do or do not have time to respond. Hare each of us is understanding others
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• India
20 Jun 10
Hi cip, I'm glad that you supported me.Really it's not possible for us to respond to all our friends' discussion.And thanks also for being understanding.But I'd say that we,MyLotters,are people around the world.It's our big pleasure that MyLot helps us to come together and unite us as friends.I love MyLot for this and because mylot gives the scope to share thoughts and help people and not making fuss like other chatting experiences. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting,ma'am.
@aliya27 (79)
• Kenya
16 Jun 10
haha. interesting question. I do not think anyone should feel obliged to respond to their friends discussions. I think we are all here to respond to whatever interests us. So if u do not have time to respond to a friend's discussion, no one should hold it against u, not even them
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@BETO247 (155)
• Costa Rica
16 Jun 10
I will respond their discussions , if i know what he or she is talking about and if i like the topic , like you said is not that u need to respond all . Have a Nice dAy!
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• India
20 Jun 10
Hi aliya and beto, The whole point lies in the fact that if you don't respond to your friends' discussion,they don't take part in your discussion.Another point is that it's not always possible to even look at what discussions have been raised by your friends due to tremendous workload.Anyway,I'm not complaining,but what I want is to keep friendship because this is pretty a fair chance of getting involved with people around the world and more than mere 'people',I'd like to call them 'quality thinkers'.I don't want to loose a single friend in my lifetime because each relation you make by whatever means is important to me. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!
@busybee10 (3186)
• India
16 Jun 10
I have many friends here and am unable to respond to their discussions,because others are out of my thoughts,as a response should be satisfied if we give. This is my idea. Attempting all the discussions is difficult,hence what ever capacity I have I select them and only then respond.
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• India
20 Jun 10
Hi busybee, Yes,you are very true about being selective about the category of your choice. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!
@joyce318 (139)
• China
17 Jun 10
For me, earning money on mylot is accessory. Learning english, knowing world cultures and making friends are the purpose of mine. I respond the topics wiht my interests. I will not repond it if I am not interested in even be raised by my friends. If they cancel me, it is her/his pleasure. I think, friend should be made without any benefits or purposed.
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• India
20 Jun 10
Hi joyce, Welcome to MyLot.Yes you are very right about commenting in a discussion and definitely our friends should be understanding and show respect to our choices. Thanks for commenting, Happy MyLotting!!