Will you try to get your ex back?

@gloryacam (5546)
Philippines
June 16, 2010 7:43pm CST
Or will you get back at your ex? :) What would you do?
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6 responses
@jeffrynov (130)
• Indonesia
21 Jun 10
No for there is nothing gonna make change something that already lost
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Yep, for some it's "let bygones be bygones" :)
• Indonesia
22 Jun 10
yep again because if you try to fix something that is broken you must be bold enough to face the consequences whatever will be there your wound would be more wounded and owch.....that's hurt
• Indonesia
22 Jun 10
but however in some case if only your have a true love and you got a strong heart and will you may try to fix it and take those mumbo-jumbo love things back if ONLY you got what it takes if you think you don't then forget about the past just continue your life for the next part of another problem called love....because I think you better think of S.X without any string attached to it or it might get worst !
@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
When I end the relationship I also end up the friendship I have with my ex's. I dont make friends with the person who hurt me. So once we bid farewell to each other, I could not say hello once we meet half way. For me there is no chance of getting back. But everything turned up differently when I am with my beau now, when I caught him playing fire with my friend on our love nest. I broke up with him and avoid all means of communication we have, we dont have contact for 8 months. Only to realize that is part of his plan to get me back. He asked me again in the way that I could not say NO. Because he trapped me in a place that there is no way of turning back or avoiding him. For 3 months he courted me again and he showed me how sincere he was. In short YES I get back with my EX. They say that love is much sweeter on the second time around. Yes it is much sweeter but at the same time it is also much painful. It's up to you how will you handle and how long you are willing to embrace the bitter-sweetness of Second chance love.
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
so it is true what they say...time heals all wounds. i guess if he tried to get back with you right after you broke up, you won't consider taking him back. hmm...and yes, another cliche that - love is sweeter the second time around. but i guess it is true for most couples. because you appreciate better what you thought you had lost during the breakup. and, yes, another cliche, the one who hurts you most is the one you love the most, so i guess getting him back would be painful. i sincerely hope your love works out this second time around! thanks for the incite!
@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Time really heals all wounds but surely the scar will be there forever. Thank you for your hopes but sad to say just last week, he decided to end our relationship. He broke up with me after 3 yrs in a relationship. I just have to let go of him. As much as I would like to hold on to but its him to gave up on me.
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Awww, sorry to hear that. You know what? You deserve a man a lot better than him. And, never mind the scar, at least when it's just a scar the pain won't be there anymore.
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
Will you get your ex back??? That is a big NO, I am happy with the man I have now and he is a lot better, sweeter, thoughtful than any of the guys I met before. Exes should be put to the place called "forgotten", they are just part of your mistakes in the past or simply past. I love my husband and I don't have any regret with my decision to be with him for lifetime.
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
28 Jun 10
It's good you've loved, hurt, moved on, forgotten and found the ultimate love of your life! Yes, just leave the past behind, right? thanks for your insight...
@meemingNEW (2228)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
It really depends if I still have feelings for my ex. I'd do everything I can to get my ex back even though it may hurt me. At least at the end of the relationship, I can say to myself that I tried. I don't see any good that you get back at your ex. I mean, yeah you do want them to feel the pain or regret letting us go, but if your relationship has ended. and the decision is mutual, then there's no point of getting back . what's done is done. its better to move on and look for a fresh start.
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
I agree. What's done is done. And, it's so hard to put it all back together again, right? And, so true, too, that there's no good in trying to get back at your ex. It will just hurt you more (especially if your plan backfires!). I am for letting things be, and going your own separate ways. Thanks for sharing!
@meowcow (942)
• Philippines
19 Jun 10
Depends on which ex lol! Some of them were better off being let go. Not necessarily because they were bad people or bad for me, but maybe just "not that good" for me. Sometimes relationships happen just because two parties are lonely and this is never a good thing. On those kinds of relationships I would die before I see myself go back. For the more natural attraction relationships I'd definitely give it some thought but I'm leaning towards no even on that front. I'm more looking forward towards the future! "Daydreams of love affairs that I haven't had yet." ++!
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
20 Jun 10
lol! that is so right! it depends on the person who is the ex! why go back to crap if he was crap during the relationship hahah. and, yes, next please! lol
@hanizah (256)
17 Jun 10
If I were you I will not get back to him easily I will observe if he is courting me I will not allow him to fool me again...Unless if I can feel his sincerity of course I will give him a chance but this time I'll make sure that this will be his last chance..Then if will broke again I will not go back to him anymore...because it only shows that he doesn't really love me because he keeps on hurting my feelings..
@gloryacam (5546)
• Philippines
17 Jun 10
Thankfully, that is not my case. Just a theoretical question that was born out of another discussion here about getting back your ex. I would like to hear about people who would get back at their ex instead. But, I guess, MyLotters are pretty levelheaded :)