Dancing in clubs

@geojb90 (470)
Galati, Romania
June 20, 2010 1:08am CST
Last night, me and some friends of mine went to a few clubs to dance a little and drink something. We didn't knew where to go first because we had some other friends in one club and other in another. So we decided to go to both clubs. When we reached the first club, I liked the music very much and started dancing. I usually go, sit down, drink something then get up and dance, but I sometimes have this feeling of dancing all by myself without drinking or accommodating with the area. So I was dancing like I was blinded by the music and usually when I dance I look around and I don't dance in one spot. So I've noticed a lot of people staring at me. I somehow attracted to much attention because my dancing was different then the others so I guess I looked like a freak. In my opinion, my dancing isn't bad, I dance to the beat and I don't make the same moves over and over. I get people saying often that I dance very good but sometimes others tell me I should stop my dancing because I look funny or something like that, but I don't give any importance. So last night I've noticed that people where watching and some liked to watch me dance but others not. So I thought to stop my dancing and continue dancing like the rest to see what happens, will they still look at me? For the next to songs, I've noticed they were still looking from time to time but after a few songs those who didn't danced started dancing and suddenly I saw other guys who were dancing a bit different and I was surprised to see some of my moves in their dance. I took a seat and talked to my friends and they also told me the same thing, that people are watching me and that I shouldn't give importance. After a few minutes a guy come to me and shakes my hand and told me that I danced very well and that he enjoys to see good dancers in clubs. Ok so, I found out that not everyone was looking at me and was laughing at my dancing. The thing is I was in a very good mood and I was really enjoying my dancing. To me dancing is not something that I'm thinking of, I just dance. Sometimes dancing bad is because you think to much at the moves you want to make which is not good. I also told my friends that were trying to make some dance moves that they shouldn't think of doing something spectacular, just dance to the rhythm. To others, watching me dance they think I'm a freak, but I don't care as long as I enjoy my dancing. Never be ashamed of who you are and what you do ! Do what you have to do and don't mind the other ones standing next to you.
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@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
21 Jun 10
Reading your story is a bit confusing... maybe because you wrote what you thought, forgetting you need to make the story understood by the readers. Anyway, I got the idea. I once wrote in here that I don't dance. I just move my body along with the music; it's not Salsa, it's not Tango, and definitely it's not hip hop. Still some people said I dance well. So, I think, if you are enjoying the dance, then people will see that you dance well.