Do songs move you to tears?

@gloryacam (5540)
Philippines
June 21, 2010 9:01pm CST
I'm at the office typing away...Thank You by Secret Garden playing on the background. Comes the chorus, and suddenly, I miss the people at home...and my eyes mist. "Thank you for the Mondays, Saturdays and Sundays Everyday the whole year through Thank you for the fun days All the number-one days Battles-to-be-won days, too. I just want to say it Thank you for each day with you..." Beautiful, beautiful violin giving the song a melancholic sweetness.
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26 responses
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Yes, they do! Especially when you just had a breakup. I remember listening to and watching Jessica Simpson's version of "Let Him Fly" when I went through a breakup. Eye swelling and runny nose was what I got in return. Being a music lover that I am, I really ENGAGE myself in the songs. Don't know if that's the right way to call/write it, but every song I listen to becomes a part of me. Songs do move me - whether to tears or to pure bliss lol
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
I think it's called "internalizing" the song. I do that most of the time, too. I listen well to the lyrics and see how it is relevant to me. And, yes, songs can move you to pure bliss! For me, I listen to music to de-stress.
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• Philippines
22 Jun 10
It is indeed internalizing =) Songs are stories with beautiful melodies. I can never imagine myself living without listening to one.
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Yup, I couldn't imagine my life without music, either. I also enjoy instrumental songs, because they convey a message without having to be verbal about it. I'm currently listening to Korean ballads. I don't understand most of them, but I'm feeling the sadness, the joy or the love of the singer singing. Sigh. Music is universal. It speaks to you no matter what language you speak.
• Japan
23 Jun 10
hmmmp...yup songs makes my tears fall..coz every time I listen musics I always remember those people whom I met before,and reminds me the thing we used to do...and now that I am far from them I always sang all the songs we used to sing..AND now i always listen to the song titled: MISSING YOU by: Meja...And that song makes me cry..for those who never hear this song,please try to listen to her lyrics and you can understand why...
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
I think I have not yet heard the song, so I'll search for it and listen to it. But from the title alone, I think that it is a sad song, which will make the brokenhearted cry. Thanks for sharing and happy lotting!
• Japan
23 Jun 10
Yup it is a sad song. But thats what i felt. I am not brokenhearted but me and my boyfriend are so far from each other I wish I can go back to my own country. So that I wont feel this anymore... :'... hey can I ask??how to create your own discussion. I am a newbie. And how to change my profile pic.?
• Japan
23 Jun 10
hmmmp...dont worry I found it already..hehehe...sorry if i ask you... but thanks for accepting my request.
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Ahh. There is one song that never fails to make my eyes mist, and that's butterfly kisses - I really don't know why, but the lyrics is just so real and so heartfelt, and the music so perfect. I just can't stop crying once I hear the song.
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Awww. that's actually a good idea, maybe I'll also do that in my wedding, and I have to make sure that I wear waterproof make up. LOL.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Oh, yeah! That song makes me cry a bucket every time! I am what they call a "Daddy's girl" so I really relate to the song. At my friend's wedding, she played that song while she was dancing with her dad, and by golly, there wasn't a dry eye in the crowd. Even the bride, and her dad, couldn't stop crying! A sadder song that makes me cry is Dance with my Father. :(
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@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
Yes, waterproof makeup is necessary! LOL... We were even made to release butterflies, so while they were dancing (and crying), there were lots and lots of butterflies fluttering about. Sigh, a beautiful wedding that was!
@sahm01 (22)
• United States
22 Jun 10
A country song calle "It won't be like this for long" made me cry like a baby. It's about you kids growing up and phases don't last forever! Don't listen to it while driving!
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
aww...at least she has a "father" figure to look up to. now i really have to search for that song and listen to it!
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
I haven't heard of that song, but, I'll try to search for it and listen. I may not be a parent yet, but, I sure feel that my parents missed me when I moved out of the house. I go home to them, often, and I feel that they wish I were still with them. I feel for all parents who feel that their babies have all grown up and living their different lives. Thanks for sharing and happy lotting!
@zsarhea (302)
• Austria
23 Jun 10
awwww... just done listening to "It wont be like this before" tears really fell from my eyes..i have a daughter and shes turning 3 but he hasnt been with her father that much like on that song...shes always with my father though,shes closer to my father that to her own father.
• United States
22 Jun 10
There are sooo many songs that make me feel that way about certain things in my life. But, not always, are the tears sorrowful. Sometimes they are tears of joy.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Yup, sometimes, they are tears of joy. Especially when the songs remind us of wonderful event, or person even, in the past. Sometimes when we're so down, some songs make us feel hopeful about the future. Some songs, I call the "Me" songs tell of love lost, broken dreams and struggles to move on, like I am Who I was Born to Be By Susan Boyle, Try It On My Own by Whitney Houston etc. Thanks for sharing, and happy lotting!
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I haven't heard it, but I will surely look for it and listen. I'm getting a lot of good songs from this discussion! Thanks for sharing!
• United States
23 Jun 10
Yes, i know what you mean!! I have an entire heartbreak playlist that I listen to constantly even though my heart is mending. I am depressed today, so maybe I'll listen to "I Tried" by Bone Thugs N Harmony ft. Akon.
@annawen86 (545)
• Indonesia
30 Sep 10
yes, so many times i'm crying when i heard some songs. especially when i feel so sad and then i heard songs that really reflected my feeling, i'm gonna cry out loud.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I've never tried crying out aloud. Maybe I should.Seriously, there are really songs that make us cry especially when we are sad. Thanks for the response!
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I've never tried crying out aloud. Maybe I should.Seriously, there are really songs that make us cry especially when we are sad. Thanks for the response!
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
1 Oct 10
I've never tried crying out aloud. Maybe I should.Seriously, there are really songs that make us cry especially when we are sad. Thanks for the response!
@balasri (26537)
• India
29 Jun 10
Yes soulful songs do move me.For that matter anything that is so good and humane makes the tears well up in my eyes.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
29 Jun 10
that's cool - anything good and humane. me, too. even the kindness of other people can move me to tears :)
@PureBitz (34)
• Canada
23 Jun 10
If the melody and lyrics remind me of certain past events I get teary. Music is a powerful tool.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
I agree, music is a powerful tool that can influence people. And most of the time, we relate to songs because they sing of events that are similar to what we've gone through in the past. Thanks for sharing and happy lotting!
@pipi_gogo (133)
• China
22 Jun 10
i like the song “go with me if u love me”it move me,but no tear
• China
23 Jun 10
it is chinese song,its name is chinese
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
oh...it would be difficult for me to find it then...hmmm
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
I have not heard of the song yet, but I will try to search for it and listen to it. Thanks for sharing and happy lotting!
• India
22 Jun 10
Music is the language of the universe. Music can have a very deep effect on human hearts and it does touches our souls. Music has the power to make us smile,set our mood when we are low, make us forget our tensions and gives a positive energy to deal with this world. Also music sometimes touches us so deeply that we unknowingly get tears in our eyes. For me, yes, songs do move me to tears many times. For the songs remind me of my lost love and all such memories associated with her So I cant help crying at times. I just love backstreet boy's "Show me the meaning of being lonely".This song has moved me to tears for so many times.
• India
23 Jun 10
Yes buddy agreed. Most of the romantic songs have lyrics which seem tailor-made for us.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Yup, and it pierces through the heart. :) Just shows that us humans are made up of the same stuff deep inside. So much, that it is as if one is thinking the thoughts of another. :)
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Yes, I also believe that music affects us deeply. And, because these songs speak of love, happiness, hope, sadness - which everyone of us has experienced at least one time in our lives, we can relate to the songs so much. It is as if the song was written especially for us. Agree?
@camomile07 (1420)
• Germany
24 Jun 10
Songs definitly can move tears and a lot of other emotions. It depends on your situation you stay and the attention you give to the music at the moment you listen to some songs. I get moved my tears listening to the following songs like: I don't know how to love him (from the musical Jesucrist Superstar), the power of love (Jennifer Rush) or I will always love you (Whitney Houston). Many characteres may influence in coming up your tears: melody, voice of the singer, text.... Other songs may give you positive influence, force, energy or tireness...
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
28 Jun 10
I agree. Songs can evoke different emotions depending on the kind of song and our own experiences. I like the songs you've mentioned as well. Thanks for the insight!
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
sometimes my tears moved if the songs was related to me and when i feel sad. love songs was super related to my love life so that this is the one of the reason my tears move.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
right. most of the time, songs move us because we can relate to the lyrics of the song. so when our hearts are broken, we can be moved to tears when we hear sad love songs about lost love.
@zsarhea (302)
• Austria
23 Jun 10
Hello glorycam, Im living alone and music and internet is the one bringing alot of emotions every now and then.I have a daughter and shes my life but i still empty...in fact this few days ago i felt empty and lonely so theres nothing to do but to listen to music.I cried but i dont exactly know why...i miss my bestfriend,my parents,my daughter and i miss having someone...music reminds me of alot of memories,happy,sad,heartaches and stuff like that but it brings hopes too...iv always loved being alone but i dont know why im feeling this...good thing theres musics that i can listen too..,.sigh sigh sigh...nice post.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Aww, I hope that music heals your soul and keep you company while you're alone. I am alone, too, and currently, I still love being alone, but, sometimes, we just need to get connected with other people, because, we are social beings after all. Working far away from home is hard (I know because I miss the folks at home, too) and sometime). I remember there were times before that I would walk into ukay-ukay stores here in Manila, just to listen to the songs they play (because the owners are from Baguio, too, and play country songs - which are not played often here, but is very common at home). Or, I play the songs that I used to play when I was still studying - songs that I played when I was alone in my room. And it helps a little bit. Thanks for sharing, and have a nice day!
@kshp_dpk (213)
• India
27 Jul 10
It depend to the song and music.If the music and song are so sad then our eyes become full of tears that we cant stop for it.When i feel sad i listen sad song and music.The sad song and music really toughest our heart.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
yes, that is right. there are songs that are so sad that they move us to tears. and, yes, when we are sad, we tend to listen to music that is likewise sad. i guess it is a human tendency to listen to sad songs when we are sad, because sometimes happy music can make us sadder. have you had any such experience?
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
22 Jun 10
Hi, glorycam. Yes, there are many sad songs that brings tears to my eyes. I love the song, "Healing for my soul" by Kim Burrell. And, a song by Yolanda Adams. She sings great gospel songs that I truly enjoy.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Sounds like a good song. I'll search for it and listen to it. And, I'll search for other songs by both singers. A good frien of mine and I love gospel songs and we're constantly looking for songs that praise God and lift us at the same time. Thanks for sharing!
@nitu1952 (286)
• India
22 Jun 10
yes some songs bring the tear in the eyes. i am at the office typing away... thank you by secret garden playing on the background. songs are meant for make the life relaxed fro the whole tension during the day. some songs are emotional while some are rocking. songs quality varies.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Yup, it depends on the song...for me, rock songs make me deliriously happy (if that is possible hahah). But generally, music helps me cope with the tension and stress during the day.
• India
22 Jun 10
Hi, Yes there are few songs, especially devotional ones make me cry. Even good instrumental music can make you cry. They have to be smooth and peaceful. When you hear them in your repose they draws the true self from inside you. You remember about all the good and pleasant things. You suddenly feel very grateful to God for granting you all these things and your eyes are filled with tears. thanks. God bless you
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Yes, I totally agree! Most of the songs that make my cry are devotional songs - songs that make me cry out my heart to God. Sometimes, there are just things in our heart that we cannot to put words into, such that when praying, we do not know just how to tell these things to God. But, I find songs that describe exactly how I feel and say precisely the things in my heart I want to say. And sometimes, too, when my happiness is so overwhelming, I can only express my gratitude towards God through a praise song (I call it a love song to God). Thank you and God bless you! Have a nice day!
@braiym3 (135)
• Philippines
22 Jun 10
Definitely, YES! Specially when it is love songs or some songs that remind me of my past.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Or a song that reminds you of someone who has either loved you so much, or hurt you just as much.
• India
22 Jun 10
Yes quite often many songs move me to tears. Boulevard of broken dreams was one such song. I was a loner before so i used to hear that song as much as i can and as long as i could. That song was me and seemed as if it was made for me itself so i would listen it everyday before college, after college ,after eating, and before sleeping. It has become a part and parcel of my life now and i still love that song.
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
There are just songs that we cannot get tired of, right? Like when I like a song, I play it over and over again. Sometimes, I could be on a crying spree for a few minutes which could extend to a few hours just because I would listen to a song over and over. I do this sometimes when I'm hurting. And, yes, there are just songs that you feel like were written for you. Thanks for sharing.
@khoua3 (21)
• United States
22 Jun 10
i feel ya man. its happened to me. ill be sitting on my couch listening to my ipod, then the judds come on:'(
@gloryacam (5540)
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
It could happen just any time, right? You're listening to music, and suddenly, a song pops up that reminds you of...and then...waterworks! lol. Just be careful not to do it so much in public!