Don't Say Things You Don't Mean

oh yeah. i agree with you. i think i am always in this situation... someone i care about saying things just so to please me but in reality it makes me wonder more, worry and think more. i hate it when people say things and they don't mean.

Hi, Yes I absolutely agree. Most of us say pleasing things because we want to achieve something from a particular person. One who doesn't have any ulterior motif will not say affected words. Some of us try hard to be pleasant, but this insincere efforts always surfaces. The person they are talking to may be gullible enough to digest stuffs, but not all people are like that, and it feels awkward when such insincere efforts are exposed naked in forefront. Really uncomfortable. So its better to leave out the entire acting part. Lets be sincere even in our hatred. There is no heroism in these cloak and dagger approach. We really don't have to show empathy if we don't feel it from within. That actually makes the matter worse. Thanks. God bless you