Sisters Quarrel - AM I WRONG????

Philippines
June 22, 2010 8:20pm CST
I was texting with my sister yesterday. I told her everything that I feel about her. How embarrassed I am when she's calling us and our relatives to send her money for their farm. It's not that I don't want us to help her. I just believe that since she's separated from us and that she's married, those responsibilities are for her husband. I don't get the reason why they need a lot of money. First, they just got one kid, and not a baby anymore to milk-feed.Their son is not yet studying. They're not buying rice grains, they have their own. They are not paying utility bills like for the water supply. Electricity is not a big deal because almost the whole day they are working on their farm and they just use electricity at night. They don't have may appliances. I hate her for not being considerate. Last, last day, she called up my Aunt whom she knows is sick. She asked my aunt if she could find her a money lender that gives only 5% interest. Maybe she chose to ask my aunt first because she is aware she's her favorite niece. Thankfully, my aunt told me what my sister was asking so I was able to stop her before she could give what was asked. Imagine, aren't we supposed to help our aunt to think that we are more capable rather than asking for help? Am I wrong? or right?
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4 responses
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
SELFISH thats the right term...she only thinks for her self....
• Philippines
23 Jun 10
Selfish is the right term for her...
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
23 Jun 10
Hi, mavhequijada. I hope that your sister can be honest with you and inform you all why she needs help so much. Do you think that she may be in an financial strain of some sort?
@amelly (1554)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 10
she is so inconsiderate in my opinion..did she have a financial problem that she might kept a secret from you??