What is one quality in a person you dislike the most?

India
June 23, 2010 8:28pm CST
We all have our likes and dislikes. We cannot claim we like everything about the persons we meet in our day-to-day life. There are things we detest the most. In some, we dislike boorishness; in some, we dislike uncouthness. People have all sorts of detestable qualities. I dislike liars and cheaters. I simply cannot stand them. They are like thorns in my flesh. Whenever I find them near me, they get under my skin. What is one quality in a person you dislike the most?
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20 responses
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I do not like a person who are very good when you faced them but at your back, they changed their behaviors. Backbiter as what they call. I don't like also who are very boastful. A person who always make some conversations with a lot of boasting.
• India
25 Jun 10
I agree with you. Both types you mentioned are despicable lot. Thanks for your response.
• India
25 Jun 10
I agree with you. Both types you mentioned are despicable lot. Thanks for your response.
• China
17 Aug 10
Of course,there are more than one quality in person i dislike.The most disgusted people is who always gain from others' loss.He/she behaves any other than selfishly and enjoys staging some cunning tricks on someone else to gain his/her own profit.Seemingly,he/she is pretty good,smiles to you and talks nicely,behind your back,however,he/her changed his/her behaviours;real hypocrites,back stabbers,very despicable.I dont want to have anything to do with this kind of person.I'll be in danger if i get along with such people.Once i have to deal with such person i'd better remain vigilant all the time for fear that i might get into the elaborate traps.
• India
24 Jun 10
One quality that I believe everyone of us have but some people have it too much. I strongly believe that we all are selfish, I am selfish, even a saint is selfish, s/he prays to attain god and we human do small things to gain something in life but most of the time I do not do any selfish act which harm anyone. There are people who are too selfish and just think about themeself, all profit should be in their favor if others are gaining even some good words, its not well received by these people. I hate this quality of people who gain from others loss.
• India
25 Jun 10
You are right; our self interests must not harm others. One must spare some thoughts for others too. Thanks for your response.
• India
26 Jun 10
We can always some part of our time and money for others good will and that will definitely give such a great pleasure.
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
hello achilles2010! i have a high tolerance of people,being in the HR department, i like to say that i can stand most of them which others can't. However, as human as i am, i cannot stand people who are pretenders, liars, cheaters and who likes to take advantage of other people at anytime, for their own selfish motives. people who cheat and who are selfish - these people really makes my blood boils. i just hate people who are like this. i mean, there's this girl who did everything she could, just to get the position, at the expense of putting a colleague in a very bad light.she did it without any thought for concern for her colleagues who will be in hot oven because of her ambition. and to think that barely a year into her marriage, she already cheater her husband with her colleague. To think that her hubby is so kind and so gentle in speech and manner, i just hate cheaters, especially if the one they're cheating are so kind and so innocent. This girl cheated on her husband, not once but twice within that span of time. all of her colleagues know about her infidelities, but she pretends that she's saintly.
• China
18 Aug 10
There is also a girl who is self-centered,selfish.If someone else have something more than her or more talented she would be jealous of these people.Besides,she is a real backbiter,boastful woman,she always thinks she is everything but in fact she is nothing but a bore.It seems that she possesses all bad qualities in herself by nature,should say her'a gift for it '.How annoying!If you praise somebody if front of her,she will give the opposite opinion immediately,simply to prove that she is much better than anyone else in any aspect.She always considers every thing she does and words she says the very right way,and others must accept it,otherwise,she will argue thoroughly until you shut your mouth up.I keep little distance from such people even though i am around her.Once she talks in this way,as i know ,arguing about such trifles is worthless,so i will get away.Dont let such bores trouble me.
• United States
24 Jun 10
I can't stand someone that is insecure of themselves. Also hate cocky people. Thoughs two things really annoy me and sometimes even piss me off.
• India
25 Jun 10
You mean not too over confident and self assertive types and the ones who feel insecure. Good, thanks for your response.
• United States
9 Jul 10
I canNOT stand... people who think ALL overweight people are lazy, smelly, gross, and do nothing but eat. That is ignorance and arrogance. I can't stand to see an overweight person be picked on because they aren't toothpicks. I know a girl who is overweight, and she is a GREAT friend! She doesn't eat constantly, she LOVES gym class, and she never seems to have bad B.O. Thing is... I dislike the people who just HAVE to be "perfect". MAYBE it's not someone's fault they're... okay... FAT. It's not their fault ALL the time. In my friend's case... it's hereditary. Her whole family is big and she's the only one trying to maintain her weight! She's doing a good job, too!
@jennbart (1332)
• Philippines
4 Jul 10
I have some colleagues who baby talk in the office. Its ANNOYING! This is one of the most disliked quality that I hate. I do not know if it can be counted as QUALITY though.They think its cute. When you are a kid below 10yo then it can be cute. But if the person is already in its 20-28 yo.. its Annoying!
@balasri (26553)
• India
3 Jul 10
I hate the ones who are so self centered and unconcerned about the others. And I detest the unfaithful ones.
• United States
25 Jun 10
Fake businessman!! I hate them most.They don't care anything but money!!! Dishonest is the quliaty I dislike...
• Philippines
25 Jun 10
i hate people who are dishonest and so jealous of others! as well as those people who think they are so superior that they dont even care that they have already hurt others!
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I hate liars and user people.For me they are the most bad people here on earth.They are those who cannot tell what is the truth and they use other people just to get what they want for their contentment.
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Hypocrite and people who trying to use other people. Those are the qualities I hate the most. I won't like to be friend with those people, and I would stay away from those people too.
@iwinagain (546)
24 Jun 10
I would say being evil which is all of the bad things, like being really mean and selfish.
• United States
24 Jun 10
Attitude. People vary significantly in attitudes. Many people I know have vein attitudes and don't listen to anything people say.
@meemingNEW (2228)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
The quality of a person that I dislike the most is being self-centered or selfish. Is that even a quality? I just don't like those kind of people who thinks of themselves first before anybody else. In any aspect, the only thing that separates people from another is their social status. But in retrospect, we are all just equal. But some just tend to be selfish and do things in their own selfish kinda way which I do hate the most.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
24 Jun 10
I know we can't choose how people are. I don't care for dishonesty in people though. If someone can tell you lie after lie, how can you trust them? What kind of real relationship could you have with someone like that? If I could take away one quality, it would definitely be dishonesty.
@pcserver (395)
24 Jun 10
I hate envy in people. Being envious of someone who has something more than you is just disgusting. Everyone should be happy with what life gave him. Sometimes it is not always fair but being envious of the ones next to you is not right. That is the most hideous quality a person can have!!!
@lelin1123 (15643)
• Puerto Rico
24 Jun 10
I'm like you and can't stand liars but the other thing I can't stand are people who are full of themselves and need to have all the attention on them at all times. That is so annoying and inmature to me. I have to walk away when someone starts acting this way. I refuse to give them a minute of my attention when people act this way. Its just such a annoying quality that some people have.
• United States
24 Jun 10
People who are always negative and don't seem to stop complaining until everyone around them feels like crap.
@avani26 (1520)
• India
24 Jun 10
I hate dishonest people especially the ones who show how much they love us and go and talk behind our backs. I respect the people who have the guts to oppose you in the front then sweet talk.
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
Good afternoon may I say more than one qualities? coz one quality is not enough. :-) I dislike Back stabbers, Hypocrites, people who doesn't keep their words and Liars.