Have you found your true love....?
• United States
24 Jun 10
No not really, but I am just here, I have dealt with alot MORE than I can possibly deal with and a guy would only complicate my life rather than helping it..hahaha, there's no such thing as a guy that will take you for who you are and in sickness and health.. :)
24 Jun 10
I believe that you can meet someone and there is a mutual attraction, that if it lasts long enough and survives even difficult times, then yes, this is what I would call true love. Some people think that they know automatically as soon as they meet someone, that they are going to spend the rest of their life with them. Perhaps this is true for some, but a lot more people get it wrong because they have placed all their expectations onto their partner well before the relationship has even got started. I made my mistakes this way, even though my first boyfriend and I were together for a good five years, but our needs changed as we got further into our twenties. When you are young, so much life has yet to be lived and it's great to be with someone you really want to be with, but not to get so serious that it leaves no room for other possibilities. I'm yet to meet couples who have survived so much together and yet still as in love as ever, it's more typical to find this is older generations, but younger ones live different lifestyles that it's virtually impossible for them to know what it is they want from a single relationship in a society that promotes so much personal freedom.