Have you ever fell in love with someone who can not date?

Brazil
June 24, 2010 2:21pm CST
I am in love with a girl who already a boyfriend. The more I try to forget her I just can't. I think her all day long, every day. Someone already felt well and could tell me what to do?
4 responses
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
I don't think that you love her because if you love someone, you'd let her go for a reason that he/she's happier being with somebody else than you. Just forget her. Please don't try ruining others' relationship. They're at peace so find somebody who can love you and you will love in return.
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
but marie he is not trying to ruin their relationship :( he just asked us help in how he can forget her :( me too i loved a guy before and was hard to let him go bcs i wanted to believe he liked me in some way but he loved this girl :( she wasnt his gf but he loved her and i was hoping he could love me. his situation is not easy. but he has to let go to be happy sure.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
15 Jul 10
He's not yet but what is he does? It would be better if he'll start forgetting the girl because his emotions is not yet that extreme.
• Portugal
13 Jul 10
you should forget her bcs she has a bf :( anyway does she love you back? if she did and left her bf for you then ok but if she is with her bf and doesnt love you you should try to forget her :( bcs you are loving her so much and getting hurt. getting so sad bcs she has other person that she is loving right now :( please try to move on bcs if she loved you also she would had left her bf right? and be with you or at least she would have left her bf bcs she loved someone else. dont get hurt :(
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
24 Jun 10
That's a tough cookie you got there. I can only suggest two things for you to do. because if I'm in your shoes, i'd do either of the two: 1. Wait in vain. Are you willing to wait for her in vain? Since you do love that girl to the point of thinking about her all day long, would you endure the pain of seeing her in someone else's arms and wait until they broke up so that you can make your move? or.... 2. Get over her and find someone else. A person who already is in a relationship is definitely challenging to have or to steal the least. If you're not strong enough to face whatever consequences you'll be dealing with, or if it hurts too much already.. then I guess you deserve someone better so just get over her. in time you'll do.. and in time you'll find someone better to love, someone meant for you. and yours to keep. not someone else's. Best of luck to you.
@jlydsnr (122)
• United States
24 Jun 10
Some times what you can't have is what you lust after more. No matter if it is a person, car, or other items in life. I have been in your shoes before and known friends who have and when we finally waited and got the person we wanted...it wasn't as rosey as we thought. I say don't let a passion of lust get in the way of who you are and what you want out of life. Don't change for this girl! All of us here at mylot could give you advice but as everyone says...you will have to make the ultimate decision and learn from yourself. Consider her off limits and if you two are ment to be together you will. Even if it's months or years from now.