Love bring changes in one's personality

@jagjit273 (1754)
India
June 26, 2010 9:01am CST
Well i observed Some changes in me When i first fell in love.and I have also noticed some Changes in others with whom I fall in love or got affectionated, attracted.They Say that Love brings a complete Change in ones personality , Mentality,and physicality.Do you belive in that Have u ever felt any change in you when You were in Love or in the person with whom You were in Love.
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@common_man (1799)
• India
26 Jun 10
Hi jagjit, it is true that love will bring major changes in one's life. The reason is being loved is great satisfying feeling and great motivator. The person in loves get motivated and energized and therefore we see many changes in them.
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• Portugal
13 Jul 10
yes i be very sweety with that person^^ i usually am sweet to everyone but to person i love im more bcs i feel the need to tell to that person how much he means to me^^ anyway sure it changes people ^^ also me i changed i became more caring with others^^ also when sometimes someone suffers a big heartbreak they change too and not for the best :( also person we love change too give us more attention ^^
@Iriene88 (5343)
• Malaysia
26 Jun 10
I called it the 'Power of Love'. Love changes us to be a better person. To be someone that our love ones want us to be. We want them to see us with values which they are looking for. We want to impress them. But can this changes be sustain? Is it permanent? In many cases, after marriage the true colors reappears I totally agree with you, changes happens to those people who are in LOVE. They live in a special happy world where they only have each other. So beautiful, hope it stays that way.... Love Conquers all
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
27 Jun 10
I believe that love does change your personality. You see the world with different eyes when you are in love. You are more giving and caring in everything you do. It's a new world when you love someone. Happiness in your heart is the best feeling you can have.
@sblnrs29 (13)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
I agree with you on this that LOVE brings forth changes in one's personality. It can either be good or bad. When you love someone, you feel the need to conform to his/her personality so that you will have a good relationship and be accepted while hoping that relationship to last long. You tend to copy/tolerate his faults/habits and sometimes you lose yourself/identity because you tend to emulate that person to compliment his/her personality. You become emotionally dependent sometimes and that is the downside of things.
@iamneon1 (27)
• United States
27 Jun 10
I do believe that I have felt lots of changes when I fell in love with my finance. I never knew what true love really was till I had met him and we had been dating for quite some time. I used to be a very quiet/shy person and didn't really like to associate with other people. He is kind of shy/quiet person as well, and we have brought out the best qualities in one another and we have learned how to be more open and more communicative with each other as well. It's brought our relationship to a whole new level. I believe our mental attitudes about a lot of different things have changed for the better, and we want to spend the rest of our lives with one another because we are in love with one another. My heart feels happy and complete.
@flagella08 (5065)
• Philippines
26 Jun 10
i believe in that too. but i see it as a sacrifice. any change in you is a sacrifice. Love is wanting happiness and everything that is good for your loved one.Love is a celebration of one's own values embodied in another person. Romantic love (and to some degree any close relationship) also gives one the value of psychological visibility: being to able to see oneself reflected in the response of another. One may value another person so much that one sees oneself threatened by what threatens the beloved, or so much that life is not worth living without that person.