Happiness in a relationship

Sometimes they just have no choice... The husband could kill them or hurt her... And if there are children involved, women tend to want to keep things cool, or at least make them appear as if they were. I personally don't agree, I think even if you have children, you should face the truth and do what you gotta do. Otherwise, the woman's gonna suffer, along with her children. Also, sometimes it's just a financial matter. The man works, the woman doesn't... and she doesn't know where to go and what to do. That's why I think the most important thing before getting married is that BOTH people get a job and have their own indipendency.