How safe is your relationship?

June 30, 2010 2:17pm CST
How many of us feel totally safe in our relationships? If your man is out tonight, do you know where he really is, or are you happy enough to believe he's telling the truth? I've seen a lot of marriages go sour because of lies, and more lies told to punish the one who lied originally! These relationships will NEVER work, once a lie has been told and covered up, the need to tell more lies becomes essential. I often wonder why some people get married in the first place, I don't believe that they marry for the right reasons, I've heard some brides admit that they fancied being the centre of attention and wearing a floaty dress!! The groom...what are HIS hopes for married life, and HOW does he end up standing there at the alter...some have said "It seemed like the next step" Is that the right reason.Some are looking for mother figures for children from a previous relationship, is THIS the right reason? I see couples, sitting in their front rooms, glued to the telly, hardly speaking a word all night....is THIS togetherness?? The fact that they have little in common anymore, have no idea WHAT makes their partner tick, and worse still, they don't care. I'm not wanting to be a profit of doom here, ther ARE some very successful marriages, mine appears to be one of them, but who knows, even the soundest of marriages crumble. Is it that we're too selfish today to keep a relationship going? Do we expect too much from a marriage and think that the piece of paper is what will hold them together, I've got news for you, it is so much more than JUST a piece of paper, and no way will it on its own, keep you together, that takes hard work, give and take and loads of other things too. So....how many of you actually know where your man is tonight? Do you trust him? Answers would be greatly appreciated....honesty is essential
5 responses
• Portugal
12 Jul 10
im not married yet ^^ but for me i will just marry a guy that im sure he cares for me i dont agree with those that marry just bcs of kids or just to be the centre of attention thats so stupid marry just to be the centre of attention. what about the other person feelings? if the person really loves and we are just marrying for selfish reasons? anyway i also dont agree with those marriages when people dont know each other and have to marry bcs of religion :( poor people. for me marry is with someone we really love ^^ and we marry to love each other forever^^
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
I think my relationship with my husband is really very safe. I think nothing will ever tear our relationship apart. The only thing that will tear it apart will be us. Both of us dont have the idea of doing so but we both have the idea of making it stronger.
@malihat (216)
30 Jun 10
I do trust my man because without trust, there is no love as I have mentioned before. I do know where he is tonight and know that he is completely faithful to me :) We are not in a relationship for the heck of it; we are in it because we truly love and understand each other and want to be with each other.
• Philippines
30 Jun 10
I can say we are inseparable right now but I can't say what the future will bring. We trust each other, respect each other and love each other those are needed in a relationship. Hope we can maintain those to last our relationship in a lifetime.
@rastogisw (446)
• India
30 Jun 10
Well U trust my husband from heart and mind both or can say I have a blind faith in my husband that he will never do anything wrong which can hurt our relationship ,His job is of night only but still I know that he is busy with his work only not with anything else so he also does the same .