how to treat fake friends?

Philippines
July 1, 2010 2:26am CST
I have a friend, and she's so pretty I am not pretty and she thinks I'm ugly She says she's a friend, has hands to lend But she doesn't intend and bite me in the end When we were young ones, I remember We promise we'll be friends forever But now that we have grown up It's my face that she snaps I heard what she's saying To everyone she's been lying Saying I'm like this and that Saying things that I'm not It broke my heart, and so much I cried I called her one time, talk to her I had tried But when she spoke she just laughed And told me nothing but "STOP" I avoided her with the best that I can But she came up and snap me again And at that time my heart wouldn't mend I hit her on the face, friendship came to the end
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7 responses
@merma1267 (130)
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
I understand on what you feel and deal to a friend that you consider that in the end she bite or a traitor behind your back. Whatever you did, is part of emotions that deals with her, it looks common possible feelings that even other people might do it also.. But then, to answer with your question, just be casual when treating her. then prove to her that you can find lot's of friends around you and can possibly have best of friends from within. Physical attributes doesn't require to have friends BUT it is .. who are WITHIN YOU. and how you can be a friend to others.
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
Hi Merma, I really like what you said. I was very emotional when it comes to this matter. And yeah, your right! Actually i was able to be friends with anyone and i have a lot of them! I know they love me as well as I do to them. I cherish them and let them feel that I care for them. I'm glad that in spite of what happened to me and to my "stupid" friend, i still have a lot! Lot of true and wonderful FRIENDS! thanks for your comment! God Bless and Happy myLotting!!
@chookie1971 (2277)
• Australia
1 Jul 10
wow, I am speachless. It feels like that is me all over. In the past I have had friends that are nice to me but when my back is turned they are horrible to me. even with just recently.
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
That's bad of them. Let us just pray for them! And still love them! Jesus said Love your enemies...
@aquariand (467)
1 Jul 10
It is always hard when friends turn on you its is best to stay away from them and look for new friends
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
yes I think so.
• Philippines
2 Jul 10
hi there. people like her are not worth your time and sincerity and kindness. let go of the bad feelings. and don't dare track whatever is happening to her. for all you know she doesn't care anymore at all. you deserve better friends. they are out there, just waiting for you to notice them.
• India
2 Jul 10
Wow did you compose this poem,, Thanks for sharing. Welcome always. Cheers. Professor
• Philippines
1 Jul 10
hi there, yeah its really painful knowing that your close friend tries to bite you at the back. but hitting her face is not a good thing to do for you to end your friendship. try again to confront her and ask her the truth. If she deny it then tell her that its not your lost if loss her. there are still a lot of people who cares and loves you. Its worthy to keep a friend who bit you at the back, just chill out and stay happy, show to her that your not affected on her.
• Romania
1 Jul 10
If she is a fake friend is not good for you to meet and spoke to her agan. just avoided her, be indiferent and she will understand.