Male or Female?

@jennyze (7048)
Indonesia
July 5, 2010 3:11am CST
I've noticed that some of myLotters here put their gender as Male in their profile, but they forgot about this when responding on some discussions - they blurted out that they are Females. Why did they do this? What are they afraid of being what they are? I thought myLot mentioned at the beginning that we have to fill in the profile truthfully? Am I to naive here? It's just that often I am not sure whether you are a real Male or Female.
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7 responses
@kodukodu84 (1576)
• Malaysia
5 Jul 10
Haha, I have not really encountered such question here in MyLot. I'm a female and so I put myself as female hehe. Hmm...but if that happens then, I really can't guess why they do that. And don't worry, I don't think you are that naive....you are just being honest, and being honest is a good attitude after all. have a nice day :-)
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@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
Yes, we have to be proud of being a female, or of being what we are.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
10 Jul 10
I dont know as why some people would prefer to be indisguise of someone else.if you have no intentions to scam or lure others then what makes you hide your gender? i think those people are either insane or over reacting and they least trust people in this virtual world.i have come accross one lotter who is a he but claims to be a girl in here.great day.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
13 Jul 10
Exactly. What are they afraid of being what they are? Unless they have an ulterior motives here. I encountered several she when their profile are Male.
@sunnycool (12737)
• India
6 Aug 10
We never have so much time to sort them out --- should be shocking to have come accross such ones in hundreds lol.thank you for the best response
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
8 Aug 10
Yes, I guess we just mind our own business.
• Malaysia
5 Jul 10
i can confidently say that i didn't bluff or anything like that on my profile... only thing that isn't true is that i don't look like Homer Simpson....at all
• Malaysia
5 Jul 10
surprised?
• Malaysia
5 Jul 10
i wonder how surprised...
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
Oh, I was really hoping that you are Simpson Homer.
• United Arab Emirates
5 Jul 10
This is a trick to make female friends. There would be some female mylotters who dont add male mylotters. So they want to sneak into a friendship.
• Singapore
5 Jul 10
They would have to disguise themselves really well because the truth would come out sooner or later. Also those with ulterior motives would not last long...
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@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
Yes bluemoon, I agree with you. They forgot what they wrote in the profile and then voila, we know that he is a she.
• India
13 Sep 10
Yes i have also noticed this, i hate this tendency, many hide their age too, well i am 100% male, my age, place nothing is hidden.. Thanks for sharing. Welcome always, cheers. Professor. .
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
13 Sep 10
Aw Professor, it is me who is hiding age. Hiding something is okay I guess since we want to protect our privacy. But misleading people is definitely a lie.
• China
5 Jul 10
I never notice this ,if I do not read your writing . I think that we should fill the true information here , which can help us to learn each other more easily . But to be honest , I do not care about what is the people's gender here . That is not my business .
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
Yes, I don't mind either whether they are male or female. I guess, they limited themselves in a relationship prospect.
• Canada
5 Jul 10
The Truth is you can't ever be Sure about the person/people your talking to online. you see a picture and believe it's them? Not likely. Anyone can lie online.
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
Yes, they do not have conscience. I've tried to be truthful to myself, so I tried to tell the truth anywhere, even to virtual friends.