what is the most question that people asked about u?

@ifa225 (11098)
Indonesia
July 5, 2010 5:59pm CST
for me...had u married? i met a stranger yesterday in the cafeteria, we were making a great, nice, and sweet chat. after 15 or 20 minutes later, he asked me whether if i had married or not. so i told him, i had married and had three kids.i am 29, my older boy is 9 years, the second is 7 y.o and the last is 4 y.o. he said that i was joking and it is all lie. but i made him sure that i was not.Then i saw the smile turns to frowns. the next minute he just said goodbye. I can predict the whole happens whenever i told someone ( especially male) if i had married. they just vanished like air.and i know why the reason too so, what is the most question that people asked about u?
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16 responses
• United States
5 Jul 10
Maybe the guy is interested to date you so he got disappointed upon learning that you're married.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 10
we can still be friend. i just don't understand why male wanted to have date more than just a friend. and meluan...had u married?
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 10
well u r such a stalker now. i do not know exactly
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
u r stalking with me, can't u see??
@p3ks626 (6550)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
People always ask me how old I am. I actually hate the idea that some people think that I am younger than my age. I mean, its okay if they tell me I look like 2 years or 3 years younger than my age, but some people think I am only a high school student and I dont like it that's why they always have to ask my age.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
hey..it happens to me too. they thought i am only high school student too. i know how u feel. people usually look me just like a teenager, not adult. so they feel like they have more power than teenager who does not know anything
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
Same thing here. When I'm with my daughter people would look at me as if saying I'm too young to have a daughter. Then they'd ask me how old I am. And they'd go like ohhh.. Then they'd go on about how young I look. They think its flattering when in fact its really annoying.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
thank god i am not alone. maybe we all have that cute baby face and rejuvenate
@jhudy101 (373)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
hi ifa, the usual question i receive is "do u have a boyfriend"? and whenever i say yes, it will be followed by "how long". and when i answered, the next follow up question is "why not get married. your old" lol. these are the questions that i always get when i am having a chit chat with an acquaintance be it male or female. hahaha as if i am 40 that they almost push me to get married.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 10
it is annoying when someone always ask the same things over and over again isn't it? i have aunt too whose age is 40 just like u. and yes, the same question that people asked about u too.and she really got mad if she had that question, even from her mother. it is a destiny to be married in whatever age, we can only try.
@jhudy101 (373)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
yeah kinda annoying for i feel tired of uttering same answers over and over again yet i am not that feel offended as i am not yet in that age.but i bet after 13 to 14 years and i am still single, and these people tend to ask it over and over again, lol i bet would give them a big SHUT UP! haha
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
ohh i am sorry..i thought u r 40. i was reading too fast and i don't realize the words' as if'. i do not know why female is urge to be married in some age. while male more have a free will if they want to get married in any age.
• United States
6 Jul 10
That seems to be a very popular question when you are out or even at your job or just about anywhere you go. I always get asked that Are you married? And I always answer Yes and very happily!! Have a good day!
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
that is great. telling the truth is good to start a relationship with a stranger right?
• United States
9 Jul 10
Yes
• Malaysia
6 Jul 10
most of the ladies i know keep on asking me, 'so are you free for dinner tonight?' most of the drivers on the road seem to be yelling out to me, 'do you think this is your father's road?' most of the guys i meet always ask me, 'dude, where did you meet her?' most of the time, my parents keep on asking me, 'when are you going to settle down with that nice girl..?' and my friends keep on asking me, 'dude, when are you going to grow up?' ...well, NEVER hehe..
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
mario mario mario... is that pampers that u r wearing? *starring carefully at the avatar* then i know now the answer why u r not going to grow up
• Malaysia
7 Jul 10
never want to grow up....because i'm a Toys'r'Us kid
@Jennlk84 (4219)
• United States
5 Jul 10
A question I find that people tend to ask me a lot is what my profession is or what my career is. It's an easy question for people to ask you and learn a lot about you by your answer. Plus it's a question that anyone can answer and most likely you won't offend anyone.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 10
that would be easy for me to answer too and i am sure it won't offend. it is a general question. i do not know why people love to ask and want to know about my private life.
@jennyze (7045)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
Hi Meluan, you want some money?
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
they usually ask, where do you work? since im a nurse they are expecting me to answer as a hospital volunteer/staff but the moment that i tell them thatt im at home and managing my own business then they will have a follow up question which is, why? why not work at the hospital? well, simply because im enjoying what im doing at the moment and im happy coz im earning more than what they do.. lol! =)
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
12 Jul 10
wow..that is great. u can still manage the house while you earn a big money
@lbbaby (489)
• China
7 Jul 10
Well, the most question that people ask me is that have you had a bf. Actuall, I'm a little bit annoyed about it. I think to keep single is ok at first but after being asked for many many times, I think that I have some problem. Maybe I should go and find a bf.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
u don't have to if u more feel comfort when u r alone. just be ur self. sometimes having a boyfriend is not cool as we thought
@sagar21 (1583)
• India
6 Jul 10
After becoming mom to 3 you still look pretty... OK.I don't usually hear such questions...but ma cousin he is 27yrs old but still looks like a school student if clean shaved..so often he hears "In which school are you studying?" Actually, he's married and have a 3 yr old daughter....he..he...poor my cousin ...He can't stop himself from hearing this....and I can't stop laughing..whenever he tells such an instance.....he...he.... thanks for sharing.... have a great day/night.....
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
thank u it is exactly the same with me to what happen with your cousin . it is bothering if someone degrade our age
@hestylim (1211)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
For me, when will you get married? Since, I am 24 this year and my parents never know that I involved in a relationship with a guy. Once when I went to visit my grandma with my sis, my 94 year-old grandma asked me when would I get married. Really, it shot me right to the heart. It was the first time I understand why that question is such a question all singles try to avoid..
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
yeah, mys sister feel the same way too. she is 27 y.o. i think in this era, married is not in girls priority. they tend to seek a settle job, find a new experience, find anew friends. it is hard to do all of it when u had married, especially for the girls who have to take care the kids at home.
@sasuke96 (799)
• India
6 Jul 10
I think these are the questions - 1. What is your name? 2. Where do you live? 3. Are you married? 4. Are you rich? [If yes then in question 5; If not then in question 6] 5. Oh.... well.... will you marry me? 6. Don't you have to go home? Enjoy!
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
do ur kids are waiting for you??
@digidogo (446)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
The question that most people ask about me..."Why are you so tall?" It never gets old. In my country, having a 6 foot plus height is already tall enough. Im 6 foot flat and people are always surprised to see me. The question is already common to me and I have a common answer to it but still I always think of ways to improve my answer so my answer does not get too old too, haha!
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
i can see it by your picture it goods to think various answer and probably if aperson asked u with the same question, u have different answer then
• South Korea
6 Jul 10
well the questions ive always had is where i am from...lol coz i am not in my native country...lol:)
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
7 Jul 10
hello princess... where are you come from and where do u live now? i wonder i f i can stay in another country just like u too. it must be fun
@ajadon10 (48)
• Philippines
6 Jul 10
When in gathering or malling and I get to mingle friends I usually encounter questions like where do you work or are you married already.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
it is a common question i think. i mean those question used to ask to Get know someone better. we can have more chit chat if we know the person better. and we can fell close too
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
5 Jul 10
No doubt, the guys definitely interested. lol. Well lately, since I just gave birth...everyone seems to ask: "How's your baby?" , "Is it a girl or a boy?" "When did you gave birth?" Before that..when I was still pregnant...the questions that I mostly get are: "When are you due?" "Do you know if its a boy or a girl?" Seriously...I get those questions like 10 times a day from colleagues. lol
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
6 Jul 10
he he.. i can see clearly that he was. u should be happy if u had 10 times same question. it means they care for u. or at least it feels like celebrity being up date on her life by reporter
@jugsjugs (13045)
5 Jul 10
If i am out with friends then you can say that the main question that other people ask about me is am i married aswell as how many children i have.The other question they ask would be what job i done.Even though i have a wedding ring on aswell as say that me and my husband has 6 children,later on they ask those two question again.
@ifa225 (11098)
• Indonesia
5 Jul 10
i don't wear any rings because i am allergic to gold, whether it is ring or necklace. maybe they asked that just want to start a discussion .