what do you think love should be?

China
July 7, 2010 12:40am CST
I met my girl friend in the Senior.1,we have been falling in love for more than 2 years.At first,i want to see her all the time,every second i want to tald with her and see her laugh happily.When we are with each other,we feel so right. Recently we often quarrel with each other,but it will be rightin a few seconds.I think we don't miss each other so deep as wo did before.Maybe the time has make our passion less and less.But i still feel she is the one that can't be replaced in my life. Time can change everything. I just want to know what love is in you mind?Do we have to miss the other?
4 responses
@wjx_fish (44)
• China
8 Jul 10
i must tell you one thing,did you know the different love and like,you must make this clear.
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
how are things now with your gf? are things better now?^^ i wish so^^ if need some advises im here^^
• China
9 Jul 10
I think there is no clear difference between love and like,deep like is likely to be love.
• Portugal
7 Jul 10
no sandy. i think that maybe your relationship is like not having new things anymore maybe you should take your gf to a new place or a place she asked you to go before and you couldnt. put new activities for you guys to do together. im sure that if you share new things you will feel the passion again. i think that it happen in all relations bcs we dont have much time to just have fun we also have to work and other things. so dont know try to do romantic things like you used to do before ^^
• China
8 Jul 10
Thank you very much!! I think you provide me with a great idea,I'll try it.When we are out yesterday,we jusr feel boring and finally go home unhappy.That maybe the key point!! Thanks again!
• Portugal
9 Jul 10
dont need to thank me sandy^^ just tell me then if things with you and her are better^^ i wish so^^
• Philippines
7 Jul 10
If you don't miss her, doesn't mean you love her less. Sometimes, you just notice that you miss her. Your heart misses her, but maybe your mind is so occupied that you no longer notice what you heart tells you. Quarrels always exists in all relationships and no matter how bad the quarrel is, it should not be affecting how feel about each other. Me and my boyfriend often fight. Sometimes I burst into tears due to anger, and I tell my self that I don't want to pursue our relationship anymore, and sometimes I come to the point where I doubt my love for him. But every time I close my eyes, I can't imagine me, being with anyone else, but him. So, it sums up to I LOVE HIM truly. And if you are going to ask him, he'll sure to say the same! Funny but true.
• China
8 Jul 10
thank you for your sharing.Hope you and your boyfriend will fight less.Well,love do need us to understand others more and put all our minds in it! Happy mylotting!
@gelica05 (40)
• United States
7 Jul 10
Love is a verb that should describe what you are doing to show that person you do love them. It can be through either gifts, words, or actions to present to that person that you are in love with your companion. Though not everyday, you don't have to always miss that someone. A day could go by where you have spent enough time with that person to not necessarily miss them.