What do you do when..

@hanagi (390)
Philippines
July 8, 2010 3:39am CST
Did it happened to you that you post a discussion regarding your thoughts and sentiments and there are lot of people who commented and some of the feedbacks are negative that your ego is being stepped on? What do you do? How do you overcome this? Sometimes we get hurt with the opinions of other people. Sometimes they think negative about you and judging you already.
4 responses
@allamgirl (2140)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
it rarely happens to me. i don't really post much of personal topics to me. but when i get negative feed backs, i just think about how people can have different opinions. i don't let it get to me personally. my advice for you is don't mind it. if you don't mind it, it won't matter.
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@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
8 Jul 10
..hi.. yeah.. that happens to me before.. what I did was, to accept that all of us are entitled to their own opinion.. but I have also emphasized that they should not judge me immediately since they don't even know me.. we all face different situations in life in different ways so those giving comments should also respect how we do things.. here in mylot, we have various cultures, attitudes and behaviors so we expect to have exchange of different views.. that's why for me, I just leave them and say thank you after explaining my side that they should know me better before they judge me.. don't be disappointed here my dear.. this is life's reality..
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• Portugal
8 Jul 10
well i made a topic about love at first sight. a guy said i felt just lust for that guy but wasnt true i mean i didnt feel lust i just looked at that guy and wanted meet him and be his friend you know like those people you look at and say ohh he seems so sweet. anyway never something like this happened again so^^ and with you? did it happen? im sorry for it hanagi but dont stop making topics bcs of it^^ you are free to write about what you want^^ dont care for rude comments^^
• Malaysia
9 Jul 10
Actually, u don't have to care what they comment on you whether it's negative side or positive side. They want to say what, that's their freedom, and you can't control them since you open the post for everyone to comment. Whatever they said, just take it as advices and you can try to improve it. Don't have to feel sad about that. It's not worthy^^ Since you open the post for everyone to comment, then you have to ready at the early stage that you will get some negative comments^^