single becomes a horrible habit for u?

China
July 10, 2010 9:47am CST
xiao ding,one of my best friends, is 27 years old,a quite big single boy.we shared our best time together,from middle school to university.we all know each other so well that i can really feel his pains of being single.he has a little shy and quite much bad luck to meet no girl really attracts him.he dreamed about his Snow White night after day.but dreams never come true.some days before, he told me that he don't know how to get along well with girls since being single too long a time!for him,being single has already been a quite unwilling and horrible habit.how could i help him?anything to suggest?and what's your opinion about being single?
3 responses
jaypeesol
@jaypeesol (218)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
I am single myself and also a bit shy. I think the best way for him to meet a girl is for them to start out as friends. I go out with some of my friends and they bring along their friends who I don't know, and they introduce us to each other. It's a great way to meet new people. Introduce your friends to girls you know and like, and maybe those you think he will get along with. They don't have to be in a relationship immediately, it's best for them to start out as friends, have them grow comfortable with each other. Then they can try going the next level, having a relationship. If not, at least they still have found new friends with each other. Go do some activity, invite your single female friends and your best friend. Have fun, don't make it like a match-making game. Just go out as friends, have your best friend talk to your female friends and vice versa. Hopefully they'll develop real friendship and then maybe real love.
ferry2046
@ferry2046 (146)
• China
31 Jul 10
yeah,i have doing this already! now there is no news to tell you guys,but i believe he will get his girl someday.then i will share the happiness with all of you!
ilann1
@ilann1 (372)
• Israel
10 Jul 10
You could always try those match-up programs, I mean, matchmakers, phone matchig, those sites about the single people. I know it all sounds fake but rarely it works, especially for loners.
ferry2046
@ferry2046 (146)
• China
11 Jul 10
well,i really dislike the fake and helpless sites.i'd rather introduce one to him if i found a girl not bad.
kristin19
@kristin19 (86)
• United States
4 Sep 10
hello ferry2046, maybe your friend has some reservations towards becoming involved in a relationship. that's why he doesn't have one yet. he should meditate and look within his heart to see why he is still single. also he should not focus on getting a relationship and still enjoy his life while he is still single. once he gets married, he will have to support a wife and children. no more fun for him! to me the single life is better.