How does it feel when a friend never noticed the good deeds you've done for him?

Philippines
July 12, 2010 9:22am CST
It hurts when you found out that your friend does not actually noticed that you are doing something for his/her own good. And its so overwhelming when a friend has noticed and appreciated a very little thing you have done for her/him. However, let us bear in mind, we did it only for them...it doesn't matter if they appreciate it or not...what matters most is that...you do it because your a real friend for them
2 responses
@unique16 (1531)
• United States
12 Jul 10
Hello real_rhodella, I always feel the little things count just much as big things we do for our friends. yes, it does hurt when they do not notice... you feel taken fro granted etc... that is not good because you could spent this time on yourself or someone who would have appreciated your efforts. But sometimes it does make you feel better if they do notice once in while. I tell meslef will this make me happy by doing this for this person then I do it... if I think it will not be notice and appreciated somewhere down the road then I think about it a little bit more before I do the action. Thanks and have a great day! Sincerely unique16
@hanagi (391)
• Philippines
12 Jul 10
It is ok even if my friend won't notice the good deeds I have done for him just that he must not accuse me that I have been a bad friend and was never there whenever she needs me because I now that I have always been there for her and would do anything to help her especially if she is in need.