DOTA vs Girlfriend

Just learn to control it guys. Playing DOTA is too much. Even my little brother plays it and what happened to him? He is now friends with people who have so much bad influence on him. I do not hate DOTA because I used to play it too when I was in junior high. But it is GETTiNG on my nerves. And some random people even compose songs about DOTA and GF? EEWWW. And even put on a hiphop genre? MORE EEWW. I mean, DO NOT ever make hiphop sound ugly by rapping and composing lyrics with the topic of DOTA. And hearing about stories that a BF & GF fight over DOTA is just plain childish. If a guy really likes or loves the girl, then STOP playing DOTA. If not, then just dump the girl and move on. I know it'll be hard for the girl, but the GF will just waste more time on trying to convince her BF to stop playing DOTA when we all know that it seems impossible to happen because DOTA is the problem to begin with. Sorry if I sound furious in this comment, but DOTA is getting on my nerves because it is ruining the good relationship between my mother and my little brother. :|

No i am a man and i played dota and loved it warcraft 3 rocked the socks off of WOW. My fiance is much more interesting and much more fun than dota could ever be. She is smart, sexy, funny, whitty, and above all she makes me happy.

Dave09, This is not even an opinion, why then do you get a girlfriend in the first place. When you go into the relationship you would have to sacrifice sometime and effort in return you would get his/her love or attention. I know how addictive gaming can get but if you find yourself having to choose between a game and girlfriend, I suggest your tell your girlfriend early on, that she would not be able to be compare to a computer game, and she would be second place.

why love DOTA over your girlfriend if you two can both play the game. I used to have a boyfriend who plays DOTA and I too have played the game. My favorite hero is sandking because of his earthquake moves. You can't compare dota with your girlfriend. Your girlfriend is way far better than DOTA. Anyway , I have not seen couple fighting over dota but I guess there are instances that the girlfriend is making "tampo" because his boyfriend is lacking time for her.

I was always so concentrated on Dota so as that I sometimes would forget my gf,which made her so angry that it would take me several hours to comfort her and stop the game at once.

I think if you were a girl better know how to play it to since it was very popular and believe you cannot make him choose DOTA and you specially when he is playing together with his friends so rather than compete for his attention better join him who knows you two could be a better tandem, I like the idea of playing together with him and he will protect me whenever I'm being attacked by other player. I know his addicted to it so I don't want to wait for him and do nothing so I played the game and work with him lol.

many guys are really hooked on the game that they spend several hours on it. my brother used to be one. he often had disagreements with his girlfriend that would lead to petty fights. it may sound cliche but i believe it's a matter of making priorities and time management. having personal time with oneself playing online interactive games should not interfere with a relationship if the guy is also spending quality time with the girl. the girl only feels neglected if the guy often spends more time online than with her. hehe interests also plays a role. if the girl can't understand why the guy is hooked on it, then it definitely can be a cause for a fight. there is a feeling of her being excluded aside from feeling neglected. my brother used to play dota for hours on end, sometimes forgetting a lot of things he should have done. that's when the dota influence is not good. but with good priorities and time management... it shouldn't cause a worry in a relationship if the guy is a fan of this game. if the situation has been reversed... it's like fb for women.

I think that if you really love your girlfriend, there would be no other options for you and you would not do anything that could hurt her. I think that this game can help some couple to bond in a way that they both play the game, while it can ruin some relationships because like what you said, boys not men, spend too much time interaticng and playing games online.

Lol depends on how good my girlfriend is... But I would probably rather spend my time with my girlfriend rather than playing Dota. Dota can always wait but sometimes people can't.