Would you cheat on your Boy/Girlfriend with an older Women/Man?

@kaka10 (180)
South Africa
July 14, 2010 7:22am CST
Would you cheat on your boy/girlfriend with an older rich woman/man to help your family get enough money to pay off whatever they owe on the house, car or whatever debt they have incurred.
10 responses
@keshia2007r (2886)
• United States
14 Jul 10
NO and just because he or she is rich and paying your bills don't make it ok. Imagine for a second if a women cheats on a man w/ a rich man who's paying all his bills and the the man is out working trying to provide and he come to find out that another man is sleeping w/ his wife and paying his bills because he can't. Imagine how that would make him feel as a man. Worhtless right? btw im not implying this is you.
@kaka10 (180)
• South Africa
14 Jul 10
I know because it ain't me I got a friend who is doing it because him and his mother really going thru a tough time coz his dad walked out on them. I am stuck in the middle don't know what I should do coz his girlfriend keeps asking me why he is acting so strange and why he is always busy. I have just stopped answering her calls as he is my friend and I hate lying to her, she is such a nice girl and don't deserve all this and neither does he. He had to drop out of school to help his mom what you think I should do?
• United States
14 Jul 10
Like you said, you shouldnt be involved. But I wouldn't say anything to the girlfriend. I would talk to the guy, he needs to tell his girlfriend whats going on and how he's seeing another women just to make it. His girlfriend need to know what's going on. She might even understand. (I myself wouldn't) But she might. btw you're making me think the guy is sleeping w/ the women thats paying their bills. Is this true? Because it makes a huge difference.
• United States
14 Jul 10
well thats good. and good luck on everything!!
• Philippines
23 Aug 10
no never ... if i cheat my man cause of money i can tell im very very bad girl i mean why need to cheat .. just break up with him so he will not be hurt
• India
23 Aug 10
you seem to be a very nice person, your partner is lucky to have a soft and sentimental person like you as a life and home maker. I wish you both success and godspeed.
• India
3 Aug 10
I will cheat my husband for any other guy either richer or smarter... I know he loves me too as much as i do. We are happy together and i know that he will also not cheat me.
@pinky31ps (329)
• India
20 Jul 10
well i would never do that. but ya as far as your friend is concerned, he doesn't want to but he has to do this. he has responsibility of his mom. he is not wrong at his place. but doing such a thing for just earning fast money without genuine reason is not done. life is strange. even if you don't want to do anything like this, it forces you to do that.. such is life.. and this is what we call world..
• Thailand
18 Jul 10
Why would me family incure debts and expect to hurt myself to pay for it? Destroying my life is not something my family is after so if that ever happens there will be another solution out
@Archie0 (4669)
18 Jul 10
Bad situations in our life teach and take a lot from us. As far as i think there are some genuine problems with which you have to look for your other members including your own life, you have to take some of the worst decisions in your life and i think its valid to do so.
@preppy (28)
• United Arab Emirates
14 Jul 10
no its not right to cheat on someone you love even though it will help you financially... there are better ways in order to earn money in a legal ways.. there a lot of partime jobs out there we just patiently look for it..think of this if our love one would cheat on us and you found out how would you feel...yes you would be able to get enough money but everytime you are with your special someone your concience will hunt you deeply...
• United States
14 Jul 10
well lets see here would i ever cheat on my girlfriend with an older women to be simple and clean no i wouldn't i don't care if she got money to pay me or anything if i wanted to get in bed with another women i better be single or be with her im not a flirt and that is a fact
@Matt90 (36)
• Switzerland
14 Jul 10
but absolutely not!! there is no such thing, although there are many people doing it. And I know someone ho behaves like this. Ultimately I don't care that much, but what I think is that everyone is free to do what he wants. The important thing is to have a choice and don't exclusively for money!
• United Arab Emirates
14 Jul 10
Never...I love my wife more than anything and i will never cheat her for evan a million dollars. i have the conficdence and faith on my talents and i know i can do it.