Do you have any way out the bad mood or old relationship ?

@floris (26)
China
July 17, 2010 3:54am CST
this days, i broke up with my ex-bf. cause he reconciled with his ex-gf . oh , my!i couln't even stay alone . the i came up with this series - men in trees, and found that i am the key actress-marin first. so , my question is, do you have any way out when you break up with a guy you love?
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• United States
19 Jul 10
What helped me was talking to my best friend. He showed me I Still am worthy of love, I felt worthless. He told me Not to play any sad songs. It took some time but my heart did mend And it remained open. Now I'm with the man of my dreams. what I would add is go out and do the things You like to do, especially any activity you didn't get to do while you were with him. It does take time. Give it All the time you need and please don't shut your heart. Keep it open so the right guy can find it. Take care.
@floris (26)
• China
21 Jul 10
Sometimes we drilled our head to earth ,just like ostrich does when occur to disaster . fiends always help a lot on this atmosphere. i ever heard a song referring about friendship in which singer sings "you never blame to my unfrequntely contact when i am in love but come the first time when i break up" thaks god , we have friends . thank you for you reply .
• Philippines
17 Jul 10
I know it's not that easy. But after all the crying and sulking, we must move on. What I do is to list down the things that I've long been planning but did not have the chance to do, or even the places I've always wanted to visit. Then I do them one by one, alone or in the company of my bestfriend. In this way I get to see the other beautiful things in life that I've been missing because I was too busy dwelling on my sadness. Sometimes I also go out to have a new hairdo or have myself pampered to boost my self-esteem. I also write in some kind of journal to express what i feel. And of course, i pray for inner guidance to help me move on, while summoning myself to take the first step towards recovery, admitting that my relationship has ended and I have to accept it.
@floris (26)
• China
17 Jul 10
Thank you for your reply . And i apreciate your methords. I think it's good to do something to get across and obviously yours are more positive .