do your parents know you lost your virginity? or do they think they know?

United States
July 18, 2010 9:07am CST
tough question, I still haven't told my parents, and don't want to lol, but its my choice. whats your story? Do your parents know, or do they think they know, but have no idea?
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9 responses
@pinky31ps (329)
• India
20 Jul 10
well my parents doesn't know this because i am quite a career oriented and not much into this dating stuff kinda. so they don't know that..
• United States
23 Jul 10
well that sounds great, your a career oriented kind of person. I'm going to school to focus on that myself...my career. btw thank you for your comment
• India
23 Jul 10
thats great.. best of luck with your career..
• China
18 Jul 10
I hava not tell my parents about my virginity,because i am adult and i can take care of it .
• United States
18 Jul 10
I understand, thank you for your comment!
• China
19 Jul 10
But you are better to ask your parents .
• India
28 Jul 10
Now they knows m not because m with my man.... anyway u dont need to say. Your parents are more smarter then u so they knows more then u in anything. Anyway hope u have given your virginity to someone who is loyal person and faithful.
• United States
28 Jul 10
I did, and thank you for your comment.
• United States
23 Jul 10
I'm 23 and I've had guys over and spent the night at guy's houses and at boyfriend's houses so yea I think the jig is up and they don't think I'm their sweet pure little girl. But all parents have to deal with this realization about their child one day. Hopefully it is later (like 18) rather than sooner.
• United States
28 Jul 10
I agree. 18 rather than sooner. btw thank you for this comment!
@bwaybaby (904)
• United States
22 Jul 10
I'm saying nothing to my parents. My mom very much believes in the whole wait until marriage thing. She was 19 when she married my dad. I'm 22 and dating the guy I'm most likely going to marry. He's the only guy I've been with- we've been dating for about a year. They might have some idea, but I don't feel comfortable talking about it with my parents.
• United States
23 Jul 10
I agree, im 21 and i'm not saying anything to my parents either. My mom also is big on wait until you get married which is why i have no means on telling her. btw thank you for your comment!
• China
21 Jul 10
i think no matter are you vrigin or not. but in parent's eyes, you are their baby all the time. they eyes on you .. if i were you,i would tell them all things and let them depend. to be yourself ,i think ,it is the most important
• United States
23 Jul 10
I agree w/ you 100% we are still babies in their eyes, which is why this baby is not telling her lol. btw thank you for your comment!
• Canada
18 Jul 10
NO, I would never tell my parents. I'm not looking to be slapped in the face by my mom anytime soon.. But I'm sure when your dating someone if you're with them all the time your parents probably have an idea of what you're doing together.. If my parents were thinking that, they would most likely have said something to me about it.. You know, given me "the talk" because they have never given me that talk yet. I'm sure they have no idea.
• United States
18 Jul 10
lol. i can understand the slap in the face part, but yes, I'm sure they do have an idea, because i've been w/ my bf for almost 3 years come october. btw thank you for your comment!
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
18 Jul 10
I don`t know if my father knows this, but my mother surely does. We talk all the time about this, especially when i need an advice about one thing. But since my boyfriend comes and stay at my place for like 2-3 weeks, i think my father knows i`m not a virgin anymore.
• United States
18 Jul 10
Thats really nice you can sit and talk to your mom and get advice from her, and thanks for your comment!
@Cutie18f (9564)
• Philippines
18 Jul 10
When you have a boyfriend and you're very close with him, always going out with him, I am sure that your parents already have some idea that you must be doing something other than just holding hands. But if your parents do not know that you are into a relationship with someone, then they will think that you are still pure.
• United States
18 Jul 10
I agree, I'm sure she wonders, but do not actually know. btw thanks for your comment!!