What does a woman really want in her life ?

India
July 18, 2010 2:15pm CST
Can any body answer this question?. In my view what a woman really want in her life is 'to become in charge of her own life'. Do you agree with my view? Please express your opinions too.
26 responses
@Skade24 (750)
• Romania
18 Jul 10
It depends of a woman, some are independent, some are depending on someone all the time. I want to be independent, to take care of myself, and to earn money with my own mind and hands, i think is not very wise to depend of a man, because he can betray you, when you least expect. I also want a man by my side, that can respect me, and love me for what i am, and love me, only me, and maybe a baby.
• India
18 Jul 10
But in most cases women don't have freedom to take decisions even in their own affairs. Thats why I said what she need is 'to be in charge of her own life'
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
3 Aug 10
Hi davidbarkly, welcome to the mylot. first of all you have to add an image to your mylot.com profile. womens are similar to ocean. we can't measure their mind n heart. all the best..........
@simonelee (2715)
• China
31 Jul 10
Hello, David. It depends on how the parents brought their children. Some woman likely independent and some are dependent with others. But, most of the woman i know are independent. They want their own life, live on their own and earn on their own. Some whom i know that are married still don't want their partner boss them around all the time. For me, i want my own life but not to the extent that i hurt my partners feeling because of my decisions. I don't want to be selfish, i want to balance things. Welcome to mylot.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
3 Aug 10
A lovable husband is the best things woman wants.
@huqh123 (182)
• China
31 Jul 10
what a woman needs is a good family and stable life without too many misunderstandings. so the most important is tender love from the man.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
yes that's true...and as a woman..i also want to be successful on the career path i've chosen...and start a family with my Mr. Right...i'm not aiming to be a millionaire in my lifetime since it's too impossible... i just want happiness for myself.., for my family and a secure future too..
@hushi22 (4928)
26 Jul 10
not exactly. in my case, i just wanna be with my bf forever and ever. =)
@jak2010 (1550)
• Papua New Guinea
24 Jul 10
First, a woman wants a man natural for campansionship and cohabitation. The she wants the man to provide security, care, protection, money food and lasting relationship.
@rose005 (254)
• India
27 Jul 10
I also agree with you that woman should become charge of her own life after all woman will be the one who really works hard at home. Nobody will be happy when their husband takeover them.
@george000 (166)
• India
26 Jul 10
According to me woman should be honest,sincere,frank ,loyal and confident to herself.Woman should respect her husband and listen to him at any time.she should be knowing her value and standard which she is having.
@kshp_dpk (213)
• India
23 Jul 10
Yes,woman really want to charge in their life.we have to lead our life happy.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
26 Jul 10
Yes I join with you. Sure woman wants to become in charge of her own life as nobody likes to remain in under control of man. I am being a woman, like to lead my own life as my wishes and I want myself to be boss. I wont appropriate if man are overtaking woman's life.
• United States
23 Jul 10
What I want in life is happiness. Sometimes I think I'm weird because I'm not like other women that wants to be completely independant and have a career that she dedicates her whole life to. I realize some woman are so very very unhappy when they put their whole lives in their career for example the teachers at school are sooo very unhappy! What I want in life is very simple, I just want to be happy and not worry about the scary things in life and I always want to be protected by my husband.
• India
27 Jul 10
It depends up on person to person because some women they have lots of needs and wants in their life.But some they want to change their life style and even their living standard too.Some women they want their family to be happy and peace forever.
@ron2dmax (48)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
Me as a woman, I want to have my own life that can totally protect me at times on my own... a life which nobody can dictate me what to do, etc...a life which i can do anything without minding people surrounds me...a life which i could attain all the success in life and everything...a life that even alone i could be totally happy and contented ;)
@raviudal (260)
• India
19 Jul 10
i think a a women want a good family in her life
@mauie0918 (337)
• Philippines
19 Jul 10
Of course, everybody wants to be in charge of their own lives! Women are so positive in this thinking! We don't like that somebody will rule our ways! We might listen to some advices or what BUT we still follow our own decision! WOMEN RULES!!!
@ekoytyas (4679)
• Indonesia
20 Jul 10
most of woman in this world was try to get happiness. if you have a girlfriend make sure you can protect her and make sure she was happy when she stay behind you.
@anjo12 (66)
19 Jul 10
It depends on the woman. She may want to have a family, to be successful, to be a good wife, to have loads of money. But I agree with you when you say that a woman likes to be in charge of her own life. She'll be able to do anything, get anything, and become who she wants to be if she's in control of her own life.
• China
22 Jul 10
that depends.as a young woman myself,I agree that a woman should be in charge of her own life.A woman should have her own business and her own interests.She should not rely on her husband or friends very much.Maybe a happy family and a successful business is just ok.Haha... I am new here,glad to see you.