How do you choose a "best man" from one of your friends?

@onichboy (134)
Thailand
July 20, 2010 3:52am CST
I won't get married until two years, but I have decided who my 'best man' will be and I'm not quite sure if my decision is right. Do you have any idea on how to properly choose the 'best man' for your wedding? Thanks!
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6 responses
@anneish (117)
• Philippines
6 Oct 10
if you do have a brother you don't have to decide about it coz you already have... but if you don't have your own,. for me I'll choose the man close to me...not necessary a relatives of mine but a man that i know deserve to be the one.
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
7 Oct 10
this is quite difficult but I managed to narrow down my choices, I will go with what you said. thanks! :)
@anneish (117)
• Philippines
7 Oct 10
welcome! thanks for adding me... happy mylotting!
@anjo12 (66)
21 Jul 10
I'm not a guy so I don't know exactly how you choose your best man. But my boyfriend told me he's choosing his brother not just because they're family but also because his brother happens to be one of the closest friends he has and they've been through a lot together. Not to mention the fact that his brother has always been very nice to me and has always been supportive of our relationship. :)
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
7 Oct 10
Thanks for sharing, you're bf is fortunate to have a brother. :)
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
20 Jul 10
Marriage has entered my mind but I know it's not going to be anytime soon. But just in case, I would have to choose one that is really closest to my groom. I am thinking among his two brothers, and his bestfriend. But I am thinking more of his betfriend because they really shared a lot of fun boyish memories together. And when the best man would give his speech, I know it would really be so meaningful.
20 Jul 10
It could be your best friend of your closest relative I guess.
20 Jul 10
Sorry I typed the wrong word, its your best friend or one of your closest relative.
@jerikjames (1041)
• Philippines
20 Jul 10
For me, the best man I would choose for my wedding would be my brother. He's the closest guy to my girlfriend and I. I have a best friend but my girl has not met him yet but they do know each other through me. So my advice to you is to pick the closest guy to you and your girlfriend. And goodluck to your marriage in two years that is.
@onichboy (134)
• Thailand
20 Jul 10
Thanks man! Well, unfortunately I don't have a brother. But if I had one, I'd definitely pick him. Thanks for the advice, I guess you're right the closest to me and my girlfriend would be the best. ;) I hope the marriage will be earlier than two years! haha!
@bkrm_gupt (219)
• India
24 Jul 10
Oh!thank u God i will definitely choose my brother.ha ha..........!