How to convince girl friend?? Please respond and save my love...Please friends
By sach143_u
@sach143_u (859)
India
July 20, 2010 2:26pm CST
I didn't talk with my girlfriend because i was not having sufficient balance to call and if i don't have balance then i won't be able to sms. So from past 2 days i didn't talk with her and today when i called her then she got angry on me and now from past 3 and half hours she is not picking my call and she is not replying to my msgs so please please kindly help me and save my love by giving your valuable response. PLease.........
11 responses
@Lunar01 (151)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Dump her and get a better girlfriend.
Just kidding.
Even though you do need to rethink this entire scenario. If she is understanding then she will listen to you and accept that you were having problems and unable to talk to her. If you didn't explain to her then I guess she thinks that you just ignore her and going out with another girl. Gasp!! Remind me of my ex when she ignored me for a few days.
Call her from another number, apologize with all the feelings you have, then maybe she'll listen to you.
Another thing, why do you post this on here anyway? Believe me, as long as you do what you think you should do then she will understand and everything will be fine. Don't spend too much time reading responses but instead just go for what you think.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
20 Jul 10
Ohh starting i got scared. Any way i tried from the land phone but she is not picking at all. I am trying from all the way but still she is not getting convinced. Please give me some other suggestions....Please......
@Lunar01 (151)
• United States
20 Jul 10
Come to her house and knock on her door if she lives relatively close to your house. Otherwise if it's really bad then just write a letter apologizing and send it to her(presumably she will be the one getting it instead of her parents). She is more likely to read a letter knowing you have spent effort in making it than to just simply picking up the call. Otherwise call her best friend (you should know who her best friend is I hope) and explain the situation and ask for that person's help to remedy the situation.
@sleepylittlerose (1648)
• United States
20 Jul 10
First send her a message explaining the fact that you really wished to talk to her but did not have the funds on your phone to do so. Then give her a little while to settle down. She is upset and the harder you try to reach her the less likely she is to take your call. Her goal is to make you feel like she did when you did not contact her for a couple of days. If this is what is going to drive her away then you never really had her in the first place. I am sure that once she settles down she will realize what she has done and pick up the phone and call.
@sach143_u (859)
• India
20 Jul 10
No dear i tried that one earlier itself and i sent so many times and explained every thing in detail but still she didn't reply even a single time. I am bit afraid about my love. I always feels her feelings but because of money now i am getting problem.
@bkrm_gupt (219)
• India
26 Jul 10
First and foremost send her sms explain every thing about the problems.If she did not respond any more don't lose your hope keep on dialing her number again and again until she realize that.so for many call she might feel irritating and respond to your call.so do not repeat once again.best wishes...........
@abhi000 (235)
• India
23 Jul 10
Firstly you sent a massage to her and if she didn't respond to your massage then, call to her till she pick her cell.At that time you can explain to her each and every step you face problem due to that i could not call, please forgive me,i will never and ever repeat again.At that time her anger will be cool down and by naturally she will understand your problem and she will forgive you.You should be very polite to her.
@thunder915 (180)
• India
26 Jul 10
Actually this happens in true love. Yes you are lucky! Because your girlfriend have true love on you. Due to lack of your communication today, she might be upset but Please try on calling her again and again till she picks your phone or else give surprise and go to meet her secretly and confessed that the fact that you had faced in that time.I hope she may forgive you, because she loves you dearly.
@kyle2krystel (2489)
• Japan
21 Jul 10
I would suggest to personally explain her what happend, surprise here with your present and explain to her. We girls like being treated that way like surprising us and giving us the importance and ofcourse the presence of our lover, girls are not that hard to please.If you want to save your relationship and if you really love her, you will do everything and not to worry about financial or funds in your phone. Take her to some quite place and have a sincere talk to each other. Always remember that action speak louder than voice:)
@mmebautista28 (113)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
i think you should just give her some time to cool down. maybe you have made her mad by not communicating with her so now she's not in the mood to talk to you. but if you're really so anxious, then talk to her in person and explain why you weren't able to call.
@elysia0922 (17)
• China
21 Jul 10
As a girl, I suggest that you go to find her and stand in front of her, giving her a surprise. I think this is the most effective way. Once I quarrelled wtih my boyfriend, I would not pick up his phones because apologies on the phone was not enough. When he stands in front of me, I will not be angry any morem just give him a hug or a kiss. Try it. Good luck~~~
@kshp_dpk (213)
• India
23 Jul 10
You should try to call her until she pick up the phone.If she cant pick up the cell then try from other number to apologize her.If it is also not working then tell to her best friend about your problem.You should not lose your hope.You should try to apologize her again.Naturally she will excepted you.At that time you should promise that you will never and ever repeat this thing again in life.
@Ashton1 (32)
• Bhutan
21 Jul 10
Give her some space. The more you dial her or send messages, she will have the tendency not to respond to your calls or reply to your messages. Leave a gap of one hour and then call again. Make sure you keep on calling every hour. I hope till then she will lose her temper and cool off. The most important thing is to assure her that you won't repeat.
