What's the first thing to do to move on?

@hushi22 (4928)
July 20, 2010 5:43pm CST
When one is on a downfall from a relationship and feeling that he/she couldn't get up because of a broken heart, what advice could you tell him/her? What is ideally the first thing to do to move on?
6 responses
• Portugal
26 Jul 10
first thing to move on is think that we all have someone destined for us and if that person left us is bcs is not the right one. when we love really we cant live that person behind unless that person doesnt really want us near. that way we cant be there right? but if the person love us if we love too we cant just go right? so if that person just left no use in being crying or sad bcs of this person. we will find someone that will love us for sure and be so happy^^ we all have someone destined but till find it for the most part of people takes some time but when we find we see that the wait was worth^^ bcs is a true love^^
@Fatima27 (65)
22 Jul 10
After hibernating and letting yourself cry over love lost...what you need to do is to go to church and ask for God's guidance. Second seek the company of your family and mingle with your friends. Third try to get over lost time, do things you wanted to do. Like traveling or party with friends. Its painful but we have to accept that's what life is. You won't be able to surpass life without such challenges.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
20 Jul 10
I don't know, because I am under such mood now. Maybe you should tell yourself that you will deserve a better person than your ex. Or maybe you tell yourself, you can do millions of amazing things in life. And you don't have to stuck with your ex like this forever. You can be better than millions, even trillions of people out there.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
The first thing to do for you to be able to move on, be with your friends. Your friends are much more important than your your ex and they are more worth spending time with. Friends help you move on cause they are not those kind of people who are expecting things from you but accept you for who you are.
• United States
20 Jul 10
I would say accepting is the first thing to do to move on. The next thing would be to find something you love to do and do that more often. Find things to occupy your thoughts and your time. When you have less time to think about things, it might make it easier. I would also say find someone to trust to confide in. Or if you like writing, write a lot. These things would help me and have helped me in the past! =)
@koditza (235)
• Germany
20 Jul 10
at the beginning, i cried - but then, i made a list with the most important things in my life, such as college and career, and focused on working and learning. plus, friends help a lot - talking with them makes you release the negative energy. and every time i felt like crying, i cried