we had a huge fight...
By romartinez03
@romartinez03 (94)
Philippines
July 21, 2010 12:10pm CST
I know every relationship goes through tough times called fight...We seldom have fight but when we do, it will surely be a big one. It's not the usual fight of others wherein it concerns third party or jealousy or time. It's just a misunderstanding but he just burst out so fast that he tore my flip cellphone into two. Now, I don't have a phone but what hurts the most is fact that he can't control his emotion. He admitted that it's his fault and he's sorry about it after it happened,of course. But he can't bring back what was done. He said he will buy me a new phone but I refused.
Is it worth it?
Why is it hard fr others to control their emotions?
Why others are into throwing or breaking things if they are mad?
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3 responses
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
it is true that relationships go through difficult times. they clash, because relationships at times are about the union of two personalities or entities. they are different, and they want to have shared life. they attempt to lead a common path. and this is a difficult task. oftentimes, as you cited here, they fight. but the manner they fight is relative. it can be violent, or intellectual, or emotional. violent fight is not a characteristics of a good relationship. it is not healthy. unless there is a hope for change. best wishes to you, both of you.
@romartinez03 (94)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
I appreciate your comment. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts.
@Zaphan (710)
• Philippines
22 Jul 10
I agree with mensab, two personalities trying to merge as one personality. A fight happens if one of you didn't communicate well or don't know each other well. The best thing to do now is to observe how your relationship is. I too if am angry I break things but I am trying to control myself, Sometimes when you are mad you find things to put in your emotions, like cellphone to just burst out your emotion when you see the cellphone is broken, sometime an ease for like us to break stuff than to hurt the one I love.
@romartinez03 (94)
• Philippines
21 Jul 10
Thank you so much for the response. I appreciate it so much.
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@lilangelspreschool (1129)
• United States
22 Jul 10
I think this can become dangerous to be honest with you. Sometimes it can start out with throwing things but then it changes to other things so just be careful, okay? I have been in relationships like this, I didn't listen to other people because of human nature we have to learn for ourselves. I hope everything turns out okay for you. Good Luck With Everything =)
