Old turbulent flame or new love?

@apples99 (6556)
United States
July 21, 2010 1:36pm CST
Old flame or new love Ok, say you had a bad brake up with a previous boyfriend, and you started seeing someone new. your happy in new relationship but suddenly your old flame that you never completely got over comes back into your life and wanted to rekindle the relationship would you A, B or c? A: Say no to rekindling things with old flame and stay with your new love? B: Say good bye to new relationship and give it another try with old flame? C: Keep new relationship but agree see other people and start seeing old flame?
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@lonmar71 (89)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
i would choose the new love and say no to past love. past is past. it didn't work in the first place so why force the issue.
@lonmar71 (89)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
i would choose the new love. past is past. it didn't work in the first place so why force the issue.
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
i think if it were me i'll choose A. i don't leave any relationship without giving out the best i can do to make it work. and i make sure before i give up on it i've tried so much and that i gave it already a chance to survive. so it means when i broke up with a love relationship it is almost hopeless. so what reason do i have to rekindle and get back again with the old times? besides it will be unfair for the new love if i won't give it a chance. and if i feel that i am not yea ready for a new love i wouldn't have entertained it at first hand. but since i already did it only means i have moved on already. and i am an emotional type of person once i get too much hurt it was never easy for me to forget. it takes a lot of courage. so getting back to the old flame was really impossible for me. i hope i gave you a satisfying answer, hard for me to express feelings in different language. anyway whatever your decision is it is up to you just make sure you are ready for any consequences. and try not to hurt any one with the decision, the old flame the new love and even yourself. happy mylotting!
• India
21 Jul 10
u remind me of many hindi serials dear. lol..seriously i tell u, nobody can do it the way they respond here. no matter how strong we are this complexity weakens from inside. brain goes numb and we go dumb. still the solution which with all difficulty i would implement is to have the old one let go..bid adieu to him and continue with the new life
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
22 Jul 10
Hi dear, What you really want to do??? Yes, I am the real person, I will go for 'C' - state of the art. But preferrably and advisable to keep 'A' - becuase, if you cannot adjust or having issues with the party better to part away. You tried to compramise, but freequent dis agreements and mis-matching on opinion and dislikes are a frequent result. In this case, if you go forward, it will creat more trobles in the coming periods. So, better to have a detailed discussion and get seprted. But in this case, both are having equal importance and a mutual agrementis reqired. But if you want to select option B, that means there is a chance of 'D' in the near future. So stick on 'C' all are happy. Regards, Thank-s