If you hate sigarete but your family someone smoke,can you stand for it ?

Well if your husband to be would be smoking just talk to him how it affects you or specify an area on which he could smoke. It is just a matter of understanding and communication. If you can't ask him to quit smoking just let him smoke of specific area but not inside your home. Smoking could also affect the health of your would be offspring. I have a relative who always smokes inside his house and cannot control. Now his child is suffering from asthma and has a poor health condition. But he can't quit his smoking. His child is now 12 years old but still looks like he is 7. He looks so brittle.