(If you have to choose:) a guy who drinks a lot or a guy who smokes a lot? / myLot

July 22, 2010 1:44pm CST

Someone asked me this question and I found it hard to answer because I don't like guys who drink and smoke a lot. If they can't avoid it, they should do that in moderation. But guys are guys. Most (if not all) of them drink and a lot of them smoke. If you REALLY have to choose, who would you prefer?

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8 responses

krnavtr

@krnavtr (285)

• India

23 Jul 10

Its very difficult to choose both as both are the medicine that makes the life of a person shorter.Even than if i have to choose the right person, then i would prefer the person who don't drink and smoke. And also to be happy in life it counts only the long life of the person, not the shorter.

anjo12

@anjo12 (66)

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23 Jul 10

It's not easy to find someone who doesn't drink AND smoke. But I do agree with you that smoking and drinking shortens one's life.

sender621

@sender621 (14894)

• United States

22 Jul 10

These are both difficult choices to make sometimes. Choosing a smoker can lead to something life threatening for your both. Choosing a drinker could lead to a life of self destruction. If you choose a drinker, you have to worry about his life and everyone he comes in contact with. If i absolutely had to choose, i would choose the smoker. Perhaps I could find a way to help him kick his habit. A smoker wouldn't be drunk and do things that cannot be repaired.

@anjo12 (66)

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23 Jul 10

You have a very good point there. I hope we'll all be able to find ways to help guys 'kick' their habits, as you said.

besthope44

@besthope44 (12123)

• India

3 Aug 10

I will never choose anyone from these.

rose005

@rose005 (254)

• India

24 Jul 10

If I really have to choose one than I would prefer smoking then drinker because smokers know what they are doing but drinkers once they were drunk they do thing which which never is very bad and they can also smoke after they are drink. Smoker will not drink after smoking.

rjkmrr

@rjkmrr (172)

• India

26 Jul 10

I may give you the same answer but even then to choose I will prefer a guy who drink because I used to take the drinks. Since I don't smoke I can't adjust with the smokers.

jalishamccoy

@jalishamccoy (76)

• United States

23 Jul 10

I would choose a smoker. I wouldn't want to see my husband hurt himself by drinking too much and it would definiately hurt me if i saw him change everytime he brought that bottle towards his lips. Even though smoking has long term effects and it smells really bad; I would rather deal with that with him no matter what. BUT I'm so happy that it's not actually happening and I don't have to choose!

@bkrm_gupt (219)

• India

23 Jul 10

well.... it is very hard to find someone who doesn't drink and smoke in this world but this person will give burden to their lives only.

abhi000

@abhi000 (235)

• India

23 Jul 10

I hate both because,the guy who drink will give me pressure for lifetime.With the smoker i cant stay because passive smoker is more dangerous than smoking and it might cause cancer.Both are effective to our health.