(If you have to choose:) a guy who drinks a lot or a guy who smokes a lot?

@anjo12 (66)
July 22, 2010 1:44pm CST
Someone asked me this question and I found it hard to answer because I don't like guys who drink and smoke a lot. If they can't avoid it, they should do that in moderation. But guys are guys. Most (if not all) of them drink and a lot of them smoke. If you REALLY have to choose, who would you prefer?
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@krnavtr (285)
• India
23 Jul 10
Its very difficult to choose both as both are the medicine that makes the life of a person shorter.Even than if i have to choose the right person, then i would prefer the person who don't drink and smoke. And also to be happy in life it counts only the long life of the person, not the shorter.
@anjo12 (66)
23 Jul 10
It's not easy to find someone who doesn't drink AND smoke. But I do agree with you that smoking and drinking shortens one's life.
• United States
22 Jul 10
I hate both of these with a passion. Someone kissed me the other day and my mouth tasted like smokes. Oh I was mad about this. But I have had my fair share of drinkers. Smokers who don't smoke in my home can keep smoking. But,a drinker has to stay far from me.
@anjo12 (66)
23 Jul 10
I know. The taste of 'smoke' is disgusting. But a guy who drinks a lot and can't control himself when he's drunk is even worst.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
22 Jul 10
These are both difficult choices to make sometimes. Choosing a smoker can lead to something life threatening for your both. Choosing a drinker could lead to a life of self destruction. If you choose a drinker, you have to worry about his life and everyone he comes in contact with. If i absolutely had to choose, i would choose the smoker. Perhaps I could find a way to help him kick his habit. A smoker wouldn't be drunk and do things that cannot be repaired.
@anjo12 (66)
23 Jul 10
You have a very good point there. I hope we'll all be able to find ways to help guys 'kick' their habits, as you said.
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
3 Aug 10
I will never choose anyone from these.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
26 Jul 10
I may give you the same answer but even then to choose I will prefer a guy who drink because I used to take the drinks. Since I don't smoke I can't adjust with the smokers.
@rose005 (254)
• India
24 Jul 10
If I really have to choose one than I would prefer smoking then drinker because smokers know what they are doing but drinkers once they were drunk they do thing which which never is very bad and they can also smoke after they are drink. Smoker will not drink after smoking.
• United States
23 Jul 10
I would choose a smoker. I wouldn't want to see my husband hurt himself by drinking too much and it would definiately hurt me if i saw him change everytime he brought that bottle towards his lips. Even though smoking has long term effects and it smells really bad; I would rather deal with that with him no matter what. BUT I'm so happy that it's not actually happening and I don't have to choose!
@bkrm_gupt (220)
• India
23 Jul 10
well.... it is very hard to find someone who doesn't drink and smoke in this world but this person will give burden to their lives only.
@abhi000 (235)
• India
23 Jul 10
I hate both because,the guy who drink will give me pressure for lifetime.With the smoker i cant stay because passive smoker is more dangerous than smoking and it might cause cancer.Both are effective to our health.