falling out with a friend

@athinapie (1152)
Philippines
July 23, 2010 8:45am CST
Hi there. I just wanted to ask if you had ever experienced a fall out with a friend? What I mean by this is that you and your friend were like the best of friends for a while and then all of a sudden, that person does not talk to you anymore. I have experienced this with a guy friend of mine. He was like a brother to me. We had a lot of great memories together but just because of a little misunderstanding during our group work, he decided not to talk to me anymore. It was a really painful experience. I cried for so many nights. But now, I think I have moved on. I wish him all the best in life. How about you? Have you experienced something like this?
14 responses
@jose431 (164)
• India
28 Jul 10
I got this experience last week with my best friend,I really don't know who has fault?.But I think she have fault because she had made relation with my lover and she feels hesitate and never talk with me.I cried so many time but now I am trying to empty my mind.
@pirate451 (152)
• India
26 Jul 10
Yes,I have experienced same as yours in my school life.He is my best friend and we shared what ever we did and jock each other all the time and we never separated each other in school time and break time also,while we go in same process that time one of my lady friend told me, is your boyfriend or friend? I think is your boyfriend only she said like that.For that reason we got misunderstand and break out our friendship relation.I got very angry with my lady friend and we quarrel with her very badly.So I cried a lot and then I join with bad company of friends and hanging around the market with them which we did all bad thing out there and at last she bag me sorry for making misunderstanding between we two,but I didn't gave dam what she says.My friend also cried a lot and we end our friendship relation from that day itself.From that day I never made friends to boys.Still I remember the enjoyment that we had did before but what to do once we all fall in mistake and we should make it correct.As being a girl is better to be a friend with boys because when we be friend with boy we never quarrel and is helpful for us also but for me is enough to be a friend with boys.
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
Yeah, same story, but lucky due to help of our friends we were able to settle things, we talked and we fix the problem now where talking to each other again, it so sad if some things like this happened, but i think we should do something to fix it.
@dcvqz9 (63)
• India
24 Jul 10
what are best friends B- believe in each other. E-exchange silly stories. S- share favorite memories T- tell it like it is F- find the answer R- rely on each other. I-inspire bravery E-Encourage dreams. N-Never stop caring D- Devise crazy schemes. S-Stand by each other --- girl cry , remember those thoughts and forget
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
i've got an experience which is sort of like this. i also had a guy best friend and we're really close. even from the start, i thought he was cute. but we made this promise never to fall for each other. so i just hide my having a little crush on him. however, in our senior year, he fell for me. but during that time, he had a girlfriend. then there were a lot of times that he kept on asking who's the guy i like at school. i didn't tell him any single person that i had a crush on. then he ask his guy best friend who happens to be my crush at that time. his guy best friend actually knows about my crush on him because we're also close and we're open about those stuff. so as soon as my guy best friend found out, we "fell out". he got mad, didn't talk to me for a long time, and things were never the same as before. he talked to me again when we accidentally saw each other at the church but it wasn't the same as our long-time friendship before. :( i hate this fall out thing between us. so sad.
@abhi000 (235)
• India
24 Jul 10
Yes i have same experience we two went to shop while coming back, by mistakenly i push her in beside the road and she fall down, and again i pull up her and she got very angry and she didn't talk to me for a long time even when i talk she is not willing to talk.I cried whole night and any way i wish her all the best of luck in her life.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
24 Jul 10
Yes it happened to me last year with my cyber friend. The last time we talked is so sweet and happy then suddenly the following days he did not talked to me. He cut all the link we have the possible to communicate and he blocked me in yahoo and all the links i am connected with him. That was before christmas. And i feel really hurt that way. He did not gave me the chance to know what is going on and what happen , why? it is happening.. So really hurt. Until now if I think of him especially If Im here in mylot i really feel of him. We both know each other here. And we became friends. For almost a year. He is my first friend here. THat is why if i'm here posting I feel really sad. I need to move on but i feel i still longing to his present..as friend.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
24 Jul 10
This case is happen with every body,once they had been in a friendship relation. People moods change like a weather and as they are in bad mood they tend to reject us. But it is always good to be back to friendship relation.
@rtsh_gup (186)
• India
24 Jul 10
I have experienced same like you with my class mate when i am in class ten standard.She is very close to me.We had a lot of great memories together but one day she got angry with me without any reason,she decided not to talk to me.After that i could not meet her because our school vacation started.It was very painful experience to me.Whenever i met my other class mate i always ask about her but nobody knows about her.Fortunately we met together and now we were very closed to each other.I am very happy now.....
@bkrm_gupt (220)
• India
24 Jul 10
Yeah!i do feel the same experience in my life before.I have my best friend since last 6 years,but in between we got a silly reason misunderstanding and we are unable to talk.so later we were back and we were talking to our bad deeds we deed before.So its was really a fun time.
@george000 (166)
• India
24 Jul 10
I have a friend,she is frank and honest to me.we all were going to school,on the way what happened was she ask me to bring English guide book and I told today I have forgotten ,then and there she told I was liar and she ran away with another friend .After all I call her but she did not even look back and it is very painful and saddest thing in my life as small things matter a lot.It is very difficult to deals with different kinds of people at different situation.
@krnavtr (285)
• India
24 Jul 10
Similar to your point me too had experience that's i was having a friend,we were close to each other and for a small reason,we got misunderstand and we haven't talk for a year but later on we forgot,share our mistakes and laugh a lot and now we are friends again.So its very easy to create misunderstand and too it should be easy to forget it as we know the real character of our friends.So think that its the nature of a friend.
• United States
24 Jul 10
I empathize with you. The same exact thing happened to me with my best friend a few years ago and it was really hard for me to deal with. I'm a social recluse and dont have many friends so this was a MAJOR hit for me. He was my friend from childhood and I cried as well. I don't think I'll ever get completely over it, but life goes on and so shall I. (Sorry if that sounds cliche')You need to do that, when you're ready. You'll know. Until then I'd advise you to not rush it, and take care of you.
• United States
23 Jul 10
I was friends with Regina for years. She ran into trouble trying to get in a new apartment and find a job. I loaned her 700 and she never paid me back. I am no longer her friend. If she steps foot in NY and I see her I will beat her azz to the ground and stomp the heck out of her. I also wish her the best.