OMG..i still remember her

@adhyz82 (36249)
Indonesia
July 26, 2010 11:09am CST
oh my God...why i always remember her even she had hurt me...she say with easily when she say like that...oh my God...i can stand it...i always remember her...
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15 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
It is not always easy to forget someone that we love and share our feelings. Love always remain even if we've been hurt. Pain is not enough to forget the good memories that we've shared with someone we love and once a part of our lives. Only TIME can tell if the right time has come for us to forget the feeling. We may remember the person,but not the feelings anymore. have a good day always
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
ya, you are right my friends..any solutions for me??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
29 Jul 10
I think it`s hard for me...
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Jul 10
well,i am not an expert when it comes to mending a broken heart (i can't even mend my broken heart hahaha) Seriously,seeing our loved ones happy with his/her choice is the only consolation. Letting go is another way of saying "i love you".
@ifa225 (14364)
• Indonesia
16 Nov 11
it is good try to remember how cruel she is it can easily diminished your love to her cry loudly..it help you to release your pain
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Nov 11
cruel?? sometimes i think she is so cruel.. but sometimes i dont think she is not so cruel for me.. am i dillema?? i dont know wow..at least you found my discusion 1 years ago ifa..
@babyEj (1522)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
It's always said to be painful after the break up. In your case, you loved her so much and it made you harder even more. TIME will just heal your pain. Take time to enjoy your self. If you could, try to go out with friends. I hope you'll be over with it.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
29 Jul 10
you are right my friends.....but even i always hangout with my friends, i always remember her...
@ifandri82 (144)
• Indonesia
12 Mar 11
Yes. Very difficult to forget, people who have had close to us, but we should not be too down. I am very familiar, with what you feel. Because, I also experienced. I overcome all this, by creating a bustle, and do all that I love.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Nov 11
wow..it`s good.. it`s hard (yeah) for forgetting your lover.. but life must goes on..you need another activities for forgetting whats happen with you and her/him
• Indonesia
20 Sep 10
I also felt the same way as you. very hard to forget those we love.But now I've had a couple, so I had to forget the past. Hope you soon get a pair, so you can forget. I am aware, it is very difficult to find a mate, but you certainly can. I've experienced it, and finally I got a couple.lthough it has not been able to forget the past.I always make the past as memories.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
25 Sep 10
hai perumahan...whats the weird calls you know.. thanks for make me up again..i do hope like you, get one to replace her and wounded my hurt...so how the tips again to forgot her before we get the one? tell me
@ermadear (367)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 10
aha! your first love, adhy?is it your classmate?are you know her? like name?where she live?did you said if you like he??
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 10
nop...she is the third woman...now she is still study in your hometown erma (but please dont tell in this mylot your hometown)...LOL....off course i like her...but i dont know now...:(
@yugasini (12836)
• Anantapur, India
26 Jul 10
hi adhyz, really you are good friend to your friend ,who have hurted you,still remember her? in what way as a closed friend or as a hurted friend,i too never forget any friend if he or she doo good or bad to me,i remember them alsways,just like you,i think it is better to forget those type of friends in future,have a nice day
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
thanks yugasini...thanks
@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
28 Jul 10
I still remember the man I loved who I broke up with eighteen years ago! I remember everything about him and it still hurts a little when I recall the time we had together and how he wounded me although I am happily married to someone else! I used to wonder why my ex was on my mind so much and I tend to believe that you don’t always just forget past emotional pain but you learn to live with the memories by focusing on what is good in your life now which is what I have done. Try to look at the good things and find yourself something new to do that you will enjoy, a new hobby or a new membership to a club, anything that you will enjoy and in time you will smile again and more than likely fall in love again!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Jul 10
thanks paula...i think my thingking now like whats your`s thingkings too
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
27 Jul 10
I could never understand!! Have u broke up with your girl friend? U have been posting some discussions before about your girl friend and now u are telling that u cannot withstand.. Come on pal, leave her, just look for another girl and get engaged... The first failure in life is first Love.. Do u know the recent news? Glen Mcgrath is going to marry another woman, two years before his wife departed and reached god(Cancer), now he is going to marry a new woman, if he can do that, then why can't u?
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
why you dont understand??
@advokatku (4033)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
hey, are you sad? calm, still many women in this world. Forget it, there are still many artists who's prettier than krisdayanti
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
ya, iam sad...ya, too many woman here...too many good girls..but i dont know why my heart always remember her
@nangisha (3496)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
Hi Adhyz... I never know if men can be so mellow to when broken hearted. I think its only happen to woman like me . Don't try to forget my friend the more you try the more you can't, just make your self busy so you don't have to think about it. Woman can be really cruel sometimes but its always way out from every problem, you just need to let her go and forgive her for what she do. If you not forgive her you just heart yourself more.... I know its not easy but you can do it step by step. Time will set you free.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
simple answer because man is human too..man can cry, can happy and can understand....i know that she is too cruel for me :(
@tomitomi (5429)
• Singapore
26 Jul 10
Hi adhyz! I can understand how you feel for someone you care and love deeply even when it hurts you so much. I hope you continue to find the courage to move on and to find peace within. As you step forward you would learn and understand more and that would only make you a better person. So take care too my friend!
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
ya...i love her more than love my self
@rhodzptc (1317)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
I can feel your suffering same things happen to me way back 8 years ago but until today whenever I saw an old picture of her with my friends I can still the pain she brought and i can't resist my self to blame her in every thing that I have lost. So much love that I gave to her and now the pain is like a ghost that keep hunting me whenever I saw a memory of us being together.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
29 Jul 10
so do you still miss him?
• India
26 Jul 10
Hi Adhyz82, It's almost impossible to forget someone who you love.It will take time to recover a broken heart.Time recovers everything. No good is gonna happen to anyone by remembering her.Life is like a train, if you missed it, you have to wait for other one. So live your life and forget everything that happend in past except the good things. Have a nice day :)
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
ya, maybe it`s related with times...
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
26 Jul 10
It is always hard to forget someone we care about deeply...I guess you should try to divert your attention from thoughts of her by engaging with other activities like sports,travel, or go out with your friends...that way, time will pass by quickly and you can move on from it already...
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 10
bokal,i had tried but it`s hard...i dont know whyy