How can you find the right guy for you??

United States
July 27, 2010 5:36pm CST
I been looking i been searcing for the perfect guy i would want to marry..One thing im having a problem with is almost everyguy i date is a player ok some im addicted to the drama and the bad boys. they make me want them more when they treat me like trash. So how can girls like me raise their standards so we dont have to be in a tough love relationship. What are the guys really looking for in a women??
1 response
@Suke002 (311)
• United States
27 Jul 10
First off, you need to be a person before you go off looking for a man. You need to be happy by yourself because no one else is going to make you happy. I can go into this for hours but yeah build yourself up first before you look for a marriage. And honestly, (i don't know your religious standing) but I grown up believing that God has made everyone someone just for them and you have to wait for that person to come. When you go looking for it yourself and pick what YOU want, you will pick wrong everytime and it's happened to me until I let go of it and I just waited. And now I'm with my current boyfriend for over a year now and it's not ending anytime soon, he's everything I ever wanted and more and I am the same to him. So it came true for me. Good luck.