A long engagement ends a broken relationship, marry immediately!!!!

Philippines
July 27, 2010 11:02pm CST
I have observed these scenarios,not just from my own experiences,but also from my friends,that having a long engagement is not advisable as it was before,because it is very different nowadays than before.Yesterday,when you see someone,you must observe and study all aspects about her attitudes and upbringings,that is why long relationship in a must,yet now with all the advances of technology,is a very different thing,because all could be vanished from you in a split seconds,even your love one,to a very smart fellow just near you.What can you say about this my friends?
2 responses
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
I don't think its base on the culture or the era that we are in. It simply means that two people are not meant to be together. This is based from experience. I have been with my boyfriend (now husband) for 13 years before we decided to tie the knot 2 years ago. And during that 13-year relationship, we didn't have a break-up or cool off thing. It was a continuous relationship. It was not a live-in arrangement as well. I lived with my family and he lived with his family as well. So its a pure boyfriend-girlfriend relationship. To sum it all up, we just managed to be together despite the differences. 'Guess, because we really love each other.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Thank you very much for the response.I am still believing in long relationship, because it could deepened your knowledge to both parties,then all the secrets are discussed and given all the weights in the name of love.I salute that you are both sincere to your feelings and commitments are fulfilled.That is what I call unfazed love to both of you,even a typhoon could not let it die,even an earthquake could never split it out,so are both your feelings are equal to one.Bingo--congratulations
@ada8may21 (2419)
• Philippines
28 Jul 10
That's I also notice that long engagement ends up broken. Even my neighbors and my relatives and close friends. It actually did not happen once, a lot that I know ends up broken relationships. I could not figure out why it is like that.
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• Philippines
28 Jul 10
Thank you very much for the response.That is what had happened to me once before I have spear the heart of my wife,yet God have created our heart to love much more than what had happened to me before, because I have found and makes no other option ,but to marry her immediately,so that I can not experience another agony,as was before.