how can u tell its love not lust?
By s2rybot
@s2rybot (34)
Philippines
July 29, 2010 12:21am CST
while growing up, especially during adolescent we always find it difficult to know if it is love or infatuation? a simple crush or just an admiration. and oftentimes we were mislead by the things we see and feel. before we knew it, we have made the biggest mistake. others got pregnant and turns out they don't really love the father.
but as we grow older, accept it or not, its more harder to know if we feel it love or just lust. wen we reach the age that we feel we can take care of ourselves, we don't bother anymore if we enter into a relationship with full body contact. we think that sharing ourselves intimately shows just how we feel inside. but then still in the long run, we make a mistake. i am one of those who are confused.. are u one of us???
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7 responses
@Cherwin2010 (878)
• Philippines
30 Jul 10
when you love that person, you love her/him as a while..even their negative or positive side you already accept it..with no worries and doubtfulness inside your heart, what is important to your is he/she is always by your side..that is LOVE..but LUST as you said, you really like her/him because you will get attractive to her/him on physical only..maybe you like his/her body, the way he/she moves she is beautiful or handsome in your sight..but when you can see something change you will easily get discourage and that kind of feelings will easily be vanish..that was LUST..
@dweebs_8000_j (885)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
loVE iS GIVING ALL NO MATTER what it takes for you give it all, vis. a vis. in both parties...
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Love is an emotion that is felt with your heart. This feeling stays with you even when the one you love is not with you. Lust and infatuation pass with time. if it really is love, the feeling will stay with you no matter what occurs. @kingkrunal (150)
• India
29 Jul 10
It depends on the way you feel about. Love and lust are totally two different things but really at a very small distance. In love, there is no need for physical things while in lust the physical things are at the first priority. Sad but true.
• Vietnam
29 Jul 10
so, It's the result that you need more time to your lover.
the first, you maybe confuse among this. but after that,It will be seperated fairly and you will recognize it soon. :)
@spazz435 (322)
• United States
29 Jul 10
I think that you would be able to tell the difference between your love, if it was love or if it was lust. Love is the feeling where you want the person, and you feel like you wouldn't ever be able to live without that person. Lust is where you feel like you want that person, but for only your own personal reasons. Lust is something you want, but can live without. Love is something that you need, and cannot live without. I believe that love is the only thing that holds the world together. Without love the world would be nothing and it would have been destroyed by now.
