bitter-sweet
By s2rybot
@s2rybot (34)
Philippines
July 29, 2010 12:36am CST
when I ended my 6years relationship with the father of my kids, I felt relief. I knew I did the best decision to make to let go of him no matter how painful that was. not to mention that I was 3months pregnant then with our second child.
after 3years I saw him again. and i knew by the looks of it that he is happy now. more happier and contented.
when i joined a social networking, I saw an ex. and I got real curious with how his life had been after us. then I saw the family pictures. the travels they had been doing. i saw how proud he is now having a family of his own.
right there and then I asked why? why during the times that we were together, they were never like this.wat has this girls got that i don't that made them change for the better and now i feel so bitter.can u tell?
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4 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Don't you ever think about the answer.
You are the one who can respond to your own queries.
Start listing your shortcomings,what and why did you end up your relationship with those 2 man.
Try to weighed things,and try to discover where really starts the problem.
Sometimes pointing ourselves to have done all the mistakes is not good.
You should always consider that,no matter how we tried our best,our best is not enough to save a relationship if love wasn't there anymore.
If you think you are happy and contented with your life being single again,then go for it.
Right love,right man will come your way at the right time.
You are just one of those typical woman who falls in love and lost.
Never regret for the lost love,you are not the loser,you just let go someone who is not meant for you,you deserves a better one...
@dweebs_8000_j (885)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
Moving on is not just living the best, but learning the best lessons life has to offer...
@laniekins (4579)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
I believe in right timing and perfect partner. Maybe you and your ex is not a perfect partner.
@rjkmrr (172)
• India
29 Jul 10
Yea it will be. The plans and hopes that you had set while you were him makes you bitter. Your togetherness with present one may not be as sweet as with your ex one. Thats why you feel bitter, as you cant grasp the sweetness of your husband like that of your ex one. Thats happen to all.
@shiquitatw (442)
• Jamaica
29 Jul 10
I doesn't necessarily mean that the girl has something over you,at the time that you all were together maybe he just wasn't ready to settle down and be the man that you needed. I have seen this type of thing happen and even with myself on both sides of the fence.Let me give you some wisdom that I’ve just learned. “That Person” is no better than you. No smarter, no more attractive, no better in bed. And if they in fact are smarter, cuter, and sexier it doesn’t matter anyway. If it wasn’t “That Person”, there would have been another “That Person.” No two relationships are the same. What your ex has with “That Person” will never replace what you two had. Expect to be jealous, wish your ex happiness, and move on with your life. You’ve got better things to do…like find your own “That Person.
