Special day and your girlfriends out partying with her friends!!!

@diogz22 (516)
Philippines
July 29, 2010 10:28am CST
Is it normal that if it is your Birthday and you want to spend it with your girlfriend but she has other plans like partying with her co-workers? Are you two still having a good relationship? or is the relationship near on it's end?
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@natnickeep (2340)
• United States
29 Jul 10
Well it sounds like on her end it sure is so it should be on his or yours too. If your birthday is special to you it should be special to the person you are sharing your life with. As well as anything else you think in special, you should share important things. Doesn't sound like she is on the same page and you do need to cut your ties.
@diogz22 (516)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
I liked that one "If your birthday is special to you it should be special to the person you are sharing your life with". I guess your right. It is time to turn to the next page for this one. Thanks natnickeep
• United States
29 Jul 10
No problem : )
@bum2er (17)
• Bulgaria
29 Jul 10
Mam seriously how could you keep such a girl? I'll leave her at the moment... The only way this is ok if you don't want her on your b-day (if you go out with the guys) but she dumping you to go out with her co-workers at you b-day is bad man really bad... and didn't she knew you have a b-day ? If she did how could she make plans to out with her friends instead of going out with you...
@diogz22 (516)
• Philippines
29 Jul 10
I am not sure how i manage to stick to this gurl. I'll stick to your advice by leaving her at the moment... But i won't leave her just for a moment, i will leave her for good.
• Philippines
4 Nov 10
Ahaha this caught my eye.. A man cant handle his girl?! I think you two should work things out. Discuss what you hate about each other and compromise, change for the better. Love is not enough for a relationship to work, you need respect too. Your girl partying with others on your birthday?! Maybe you are not that special as her friends are. Haha :) ***peace***