jeaLousY

Philippines
July 31, 2010 2:16am CST
is it Normal to get jealous? or is it bad for the relationship? what will you feel if your partner gets jealous of someone or something? and what would you about it so that it wouldn't ruin your relationship?
3 responses
@GIRLBITS (228)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
a little jealousy maybe, it only means that someone is afraid to lose you... but not too much because it means that she/he is not trusting you.
• Pakistan
2 Aug 10
thats the exact thing i agree with.. great...
@GIRLBITS (228)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Thank you so much!
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
a little jealousy is nice..because it makes me feel valued and treasured..and i will feel my importance and that my boyfriend doesn't want to lose me to somebody else..but too much of jealousy will not be good... it can choke the relationship...and definitely not helpful...=)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
Jealousy is a normal thing. It means that you really love the person. Jealousy per se cannot ruin your relationship. What you do about jealousy is the one that can destroy your relationship. If you acted like you become very much possessive towards your partner because you are jealous, he or she might just fall out of love. That is why you have to carefully discern when and how you confront with your partner. This may strengthen your relationship. Make him or her feel that you became jealous because you love him or her and not because you feel that you own him. It is a very crucial matter to know the difference to have a healthy relation ship. Good luck! :D
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
thaNk yoU..i'LL put thaT in Mind...=)
@aguas_aj (501)
• Philippines
31 Jul 10
it is normal to be jealous. But it should be in moderation. Too much of it can hurt you and your partner because all you have is distrust and paranoia. But lack of it also cause insecurity and confident to for your partner. Always try to maintain your proper disposition in that relationship to see what is right from wrong. coz too much or luck of it might ruin your relationship and lose the one you love