He's Out of my LIFE,and I am not HURT anymore...
By elleb0418
@elleb0418 (1107)
Philippines
August 1, 2010 8:30am CST
It's always easy to say forget him..move own
..accept the fact that you are not meant for each other.But we always know that it's easy to say it,but it's so hard to do it.Yesterday,move on seems easy,but I admit it I died a thousand times in pain just to accept this dam phrase.
One morning I wake up,I just realized I had already move on,I am not in pain anymore.If yesterday just hearing his name hurts me,but now when I heard it I just laugh and without any hesitation it will flash in my mind,he is just only a history of my past,the chapter of my life's book that already ends.But if one day that chapter will be open again,I just have to say that,this chapter just teach me some lessons in life that I learned.Learned to be strong and accept the reality that some good things never last.
He's out of my life,it's been years,but the pain that instill in my heart for years are already gone,because I learned how to ACCEPT the fact that the story we had will be never repeated again.
..accept the fact that you are not meant for each other.But we always know that it's easy to say it,but it's so hard to do it.Yesterday,move on seems easy,but I admit it I died a thousand times in pain just to accept this dam phrase.
One morning I wake up,I just realized I had already move on,I am not in pain anymore.If yesterday just hearing his name hurts me,but now when I heard it I just laugh and without any hesitation it will flash in my mind,he is just only a history of my past,the chapter of my life's book that already ends.But if one day that chapter will be open again,I just have to say that,this chapter just teach me some lessons in life that I learned.Learned to be strong and accept the reality that some good things never last.
He's out of my life,it's been years,but the pain that instill in my heart for years are already gone,because I learned how to ACCEPT the fact that the story we had will be never repeated again.14 responses
@puddinggirl (93)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
I have been in love , happy with the relationship , contented.. extatic and hurt and betrayed all in one man... I know the feeling of trying to ask yourself where did you go wrong?.. or what did you do to make him hurt you . But I realized that i have been raised by my parents , sent to a good school for a good education and i dont deserve being hurt . To be happy is choice. It is a very good achievement for one's self to be able to make this choice. Never allows somebody to cause you pain . The process of moving on is long and painful but then time heals perfectly. Everything that is destined and meant for you will be spoonfed to you. at least your lucky enough to love yourself enough that you were able to stop this pain causing relationship!
@puddinggirl (93)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
im happy that you did it. It makes you proud of yourself. Pamper yourself more, love yourself to the fullest and be more than just happy!...
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Yes I did also realized that.Happiness is a choice,so now I choose to be happy rather than longer the agony I felt.The most hardest part when you leave a relationship is moving on,but know I did it.I am not hurt anymore.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
yeah it hurts a lot to get disappointed with someone and specially getting over with someone you love. been there done that. but i feel great after some grief, and sometimes why did i even feel that bad when i got over the feeling. and i felt like i wasted my time feeling sad and putting myself into such grief when i could have avoided it. and i felt so foolish sometimes to feel that way.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
So we must choose to be happy rather than sad.We will not waste time of thinking the person who hurts us and gave us pain.Moving on is hard but I know we can do it,and I did do it.
@hotsummer (13835)
• Philippines
3 Aug 10
yes definiitely. we should control our emotions and also don't think too much. but sometimes to a lot of people they like to dwell on their hurts and they want to keep on replaying on their thoughts what had happened as it is not easy to accept it.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Yes,the pain that I feel for so many years are gone.He is just a part of my life story.Now I am happy being with the person's I know that I can share to them anything and that's what I call them friends.
what I call them friends.
@jeanieous (107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
That's true, it is very easy to say forget him because it's done. But whenever you hear his name, anything about him or you see his friends you feel you are broken. You feel that he shattered your heart and will die shattered. But when you least expect it, when you pray and ask for guidance, you will be granted by a peaceful mind that will never worry and will never think about him anymore; you will be granted with wounded heart that is slowly healing and gives learning each time you experience pain. That's life, it's just a cycle. You love, then hurt, then let go. Then, you will love again. The right guy is just out there. Good luck!
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Yesterday it hurts me so bad,but know I can say that I am okay.Whatever life brings ahead of me at least I am happy now.
@RONDOLAWE (774)
• Indonesia
2 Aug 10
yes forget it and move on you life , the pain will be cure in forward time.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
All who have hurt,really wanted to move,because that's the only way we can find the happiness and the right one for us.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
I am always vocal to what I feel,that's the only way so that all the loads I am carrying will be lighten.So now having suffering for that long,finally I moved on.All the pains I feel are all gone.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Definitely, we all go through that. After all the tears, sleepless nights, unable to eat, depressions, etc....then there will come a time that we realize we are like born again and alive ready to face the world and have moved on. That is just the ways of loving and breaking up. We need to undergo a process - wallowing, denial, closure, acceptance then moving on.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Moving on is one of the hardest a person can do.At birth we grasp on anything won our hand and hold on as if we will die when we let it go.But as we grow older we are force to change our way of thinking.We are force to realized that letting go is ACCEPTING things that cannot be.It means maturing and moving on,no matter how hard, you have to fight yourself to do so.
@bcote212 (1112)
• United States
1 Aug 10
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is admit to yourself that it is really over. At least I know thats what was hardest for me when my relationship of 6 years turned south. In the end though you learned a lot about what you do want in a man, and what you dont want in a man. That way when the right one does come along you are more likely to notice. Be strong, keep your head held high, and know that inside you are a beautiful person, and you deserve someone who deserves you. Good luck.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Can't deny the fact that the relationship you've been into for many years is already ended.But I realized that maybe it was not meant to be.We have given a choice and freedom to be happy.Thats why I did choose to forget all the pains and moved on.
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
1 Aug 10
Forgetting that you loved someone is never easy, because you're not forgetting the person, you are forgetting the love you once shared. You remember the person, and you remember the characteristics and you try hard to forget the characteristics that made you fall in love. I too, have moved on, but I will always remember the person I loved.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Yes he will always be remembered but I am not hurt anymore to what he did to me and to his kids.I just learned to accept that,maybe we are not really meant for each other.I do moved,that words had been said many times years ago,but just now I really did it..because of the word ACCEPTANCE that help me how to do it.
@dweebs_8000_j (885)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Try to be closer to God... and Ask Him for more understanding... but Keep always the Effort to Share all the Spirit of LOve, Hope, and Faith....
God Bless...
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Everytime I go to sleep and each morning I wake up I always asked God to give me more understanding and more courage to accept things that are nor meant to be,so one day I wake up and find out that It was granted.
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
1 Aug 10
It only means that there could be someone better than him. As of now you have to enjoy your life being single and reflect on things before you face commitment again.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Yes,I know that there is someone that much better than him.
@Laurelle11 (409)
• Australia
1 Aug 10
It is nice to hear that you have accepted what is and moved on, you will only feel better about yourself now. Well done and good luck.
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
2 Aug 10
Thank's so much.I just realized that,why waste my time,happiness is a choice.So I choose to be happy,that's why I did lots of struggle just to moved on,and now I did it.
@mychickencurry (317)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
I'm happy to hear that you can already said to yourself that you already moved-on. Remember, things are happened and meant to happen for a reason. We cannot lived with the past but to learn from it.
:)
@cwy648723 (10)
• China
1 Aug 10
Talk to your frinds,your mind,you mood will be changed for the better
@elleb0418 (1107)
• Philippines
1 Aug 10
Yes I am talking to them.Had my time sharing all my pains and happiness.Now I am okay.
