Is it possible to be a wife and a girlfriend?

United States
August 3, 2010 12:24pm CST
OK, so I know you're all like "What?!?", but we all know what I'm talking about. When you marry, you have to take on this maternal role for the husband. Like you kinda have to nag, a little. Believe me I hate to nag. My husband's a diabetic and sometimes I have to nag to check the blood sugar. He likes to sneak treats and I'm like now you know you're going to be complaining later. He'll stay up late when he knows he's got to get up. Then there's washing and cleaning and taking care of the kids.(4 me) But sometimes women encroach too much on the man's need to be a "guy". Like how often do we ever watch games with them? I don't trip on his "stash" and try to spice it up every once in a while. So why do some women make it so hard for guys to be guys? Can't we trust them to "be good boys"?
2 responses
• Philippines
11 Aug 10
hi there! of course you can. i believe that you can be his girlfriend and his wife at the same time. you both played the role (as to being his girlfriend before) so you can do it again this time. if you really wanted to worked out for the relationship you should try it. i know for sure it's gonna be worth it. happy mylotting and good luck!
• United Arab Emirates
3 Aug 10
Yes it is possible. This will make the relation healthy. I have been a loving husband and a boyfriend at the same time. I help my wife in everything she does.