how many bf/gf did you have?

Philippines
August 3, 2010 10:15pm CST
It seldom happens that we marry our fist boyfriend and girlfriends...so how many relationships did you had before finally settling down with your lifetime partner? do you think you had enough or do you think you need to have more relationship first before getting married just to make sure you end up with the right one..=)
9 responses
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
I only had one boyfriend since highschool and he's my husband now. Some people want to have many bf or gf before they can settle down maybe because they want to find something or want to prove something.
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
that's nice..you married your childhood sweetheart.. If i could change my history.. I would have wanted my partner now to be my first boyfriend too..=)
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
hi there! i had two past boyfriends before my current. but i don't think it matters how many boyfriends or girlfriends you had in the past to find the one that is really for you. it doesn't even assures that you will really end up with the perfect one either. i think the reason why god let us have a few relationships in the past so that we may learn from our own experiences. like me, i did wrongful things from my past relationships, therefore i should have learned not to do the same mistakes again if i'd really want my relationship to last. and so i did. that's why me and my boyfriend is now turning 7 years in our relationship. besides, i don't think it requires us having many past relationships before settling down to marriage. happy mylotting!
• Philippines
5 Aug 10
yes... i agree with you..it does not require us to collect a lot of exes before getting married as long as you learned enough to make your curent relationship work..that will be great.. i had two exes too before my current boyfriend and i did learned a lot from past experiences..i'm happy that me and my boyfriend have been together for four years now..=)
@aguas_aj (498)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
i had 2 relationship before i settled down with my husband and so far, I don't think it matters how many you had realtionship before marriage coz technically every single one of them is different from one another. so you can't really tell if you had enough or need more. But for me, I'm happy with my past and my present
@uniqueorn (1011)
• Philippines
6 Aug 10
It maybe sad but I never had one. I just have to learn if it goes through like this throughout. It's complicated.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
I'd just like to share the story of my mother and father. I don't know hw many girlfriends my father had before she married my mother , but my mother only loved my father. And as I can see, they made the right choice and they have been together for almost 2 decades now.
• Romania
7 Feb 11
Hello there! When i was in high school i was convinced that i will have many boyfriends in my youth, i really wanted to experiment. I entered the first year of high school, at 15 years old, with the desire to meet many, many boys. So, after one month of school I already had a boyfriend. I told myself that i had no time to loose, since i needed to get experienced really quickly. I wanted to learn as much as i could with him, and than move on. After the first year, i wasn't so sure i wanted to leave him. Since then 11 years have past, and now we are one, i wouldn't see my life without him. We know each other so well that i don't need to tell him much and he will feel may desires and state of mind. It is a wonderful feeling and it feels just right. Maybe i would have known more if i had more boyfriends, but it is worth every minute with just the right one. Good luck to you, and be loved!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
4 Aug 10
i have 3 bfs. i had 2 exes. and well they were all nice people and i think we have no bad relationship thereafter. we can still be friends and greet each other if in case we did see each other.
@komkom (3)
• China
4 Aug 10
maybe many people have a few boyfriends or girlfriends,but i am not the so one.i only have one girlfriend and i want to marry her in the not long future.
• Australia
4 Aug 10
I have had quite a few b/f's and actually had to marry one of them thanks to our parents but I don't think it matters how many you have in the end when you find the right one to spend the rest of your life with you will know. It may be your first or however many you will know.